Hair, day one
I got a wild hare (do I crack myself up or what) and decided I'd try to chronicle the whole process of growing out my mane. This isn't day one. In fact, it's day 40 or something. I CAN'T KEEP TRACK OF EVERYTHING FOR YOU, MOM.
(That was a joke, Mom. Call me later and we'll talk about shirtless George Clooney.)
But we'll just call this day one for the purposes of simplicity. Swoopy day one.

Is anybody else going through this process? Share a link in the comments.
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tokenblogger said:
I think the swoop gives you a bit of cute pixie look --- really --- it looks adorable. I first thought so when you posted a pic to your recent death knell of depression.
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01.09.12 - 01:19 PM / 1ajigreer said:
You are beautiful. The end.
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01.09.12 - 01:21 PM / 2Lo The Phoenix said:
I've been growing mine out since...early fall? I had a pixie. About 3 more inches and it will be at my shoulders again.
It looks nice like that, btw.
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01.09.12 - 01:29 PM / 3ADDGirl said:
If I grow out my hair I get a serious case of "mom hair" so it has to stay short. Good luck with yours!
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01.09.12 - 01:23 PM / 4SharonP said:
Heather, it took about a year to grow out my hair from about your current length to its near-shoulder length; I can report that it is worth it. Just think-once it is long, you can effect a serious change with a few scissor swipes!
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01.09.12 - 01:24 PM / 5stephcampbell said:
I last trimmed my hair in November and bangs in December. I've since decided to grow out my hair (and bangs!). It can't grow fast enough. Wish there was a pill for that. There's a pill for everything else! Cheers!
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01.09.12 - 01:25 PM / 6Margoith said:
I just got done growing mine out. I wrote this last year when I first started the long process:
http://margoith.blogspot.com/2011/01/shaggy-chic.html
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01.09.12 - 01:26 PM / 7j said:
Trying to grow out a pixie...it is HELL. My hair is crazy thick & sorta wavy (more like "crooked" than "curly") and at the moment I think I look like a q-tip.
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01.09.12 - 01:31 PM / 8lcarilo said:
And speaking of moms. Never fails: Long distance trips to visit with the ol' gal guarantee her opening the door to greet me only for first words to be, "You're going to schedule a haircut while your here, right?"... then a hug and kiss, AFTER WE'VE TRAVELED 16 HOURS STRAIGHT, HALF WAY CROSS COUNTRY OR SPENT A DAY FLYING IN FROM MIDDLE OF PACIFIC OCEAN. Yup, that's mom for you.
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01.09.12 - 01:33 PM / 9katdenk said:
I'm growing my hair out as well, decided to start around October, of course right after I got a haircut. I've had a pixie for 17 years, chopped it all off (little over 12 inches) after my first boyfriend dumped me when I was 16. Since then I've had it not more than an inch long except for my wedding wherein I grew out some bangs to please my mom. I've decided to grow it out because I'm bored and don't want to dye it anymore. I usually do funner colors but I'm about 50% grey now and I LOVE it, (plus I earned this salt, dammit). So I'm lettin' the grey do its thang.
I'm in the phase right now that you are in exactly. Longer sideburns and bangs but I'm keeping the back trimmed to avoid any mullet-lovers' attentions. So I tuck the burns behind my ears usually, occasionally I'll put in product and let the burns do what they will a/k/a flip out.
My daughters miss the funner colors, but this morning when we woke up to frost my 5-year-old proudly exclaimed that the backyard looks just like my hair! I was excited to say she's right.
Good luck to you/us!
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01.09.12 - 02:01 PM / 10PutYourFlareOn said:
I've decided in 2012 not to cut my hair because I want to grow it out. I'm pretty much starting at the same point you are. I think I will have to give in at some point and get a trim because it will start looking mullet-ish at some point. :)
I am going to play along and blog about it too! Thanks for the motivation. Hopefully this will keep me on target.
here's my blog if you wanna stop by:
www.putyourflareon.blogs.com
Aimee
growing it out in Paris. :)
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01.09.12 - 02:05 PM / 11delpien said:
"is anybody else going through this process....."
let me tell ya, sweetheart, my last hair cut was more than 16 MONTHS ago!! i. hate. my. hair. i sooooo want a new 'do it's not funny. EXCEPT! now that one of my dearest friends must undergo chemo, i'm even more committed to growing that ponytail to donate; on those days i want to rip it out by the roots, i'm reminded of the hair that falls out by the handful for her...
am i even allowed to have a bad hair day?? it's guilt piled upon guilt.
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01.09.12 - 02:07 PM / 12kellytadlock said:
I would totally grow my hair out right now except that it has already been a hell of a year and I just don't think I'd be able to stand the predictable trauma of day after day of bad hair days. So, I'm keepin it short and sassy for now. But I will enviously watch yours flip, twist and grow...
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01.09.12 - 02:27 PM / 13abbyqueue said:
Going through the same thing. I shaved my head to the skin in December 2010 to support a friend who had to have brain surgery, and have been growing mine out ever since. I've taken a headshot every week since then to document the process.
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01.09.12 - 02:40 PM / 14Chloe said:
I started growing out a bob about 2 years ago. It's halfway down my back and I get regular trims. I'm just lazy and unimaginative and don't know what to do with it. Keep trying to let the silver and gray do its thing, but it keeps going blonde on me except at the temples. Most men are crazy about it; unfortunately, my husband isn't. Wish I had the guts to get a crewcut.
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01.09.12 - 02:51 PM / 15Essembee said:
I'm growing out my pixie crop.
I have to stick about 7 hairclips in my hair to prevent myself from looking like Kevin Costner circa Robin Hood.
(Having birthed no babies, ran no marathons and hunted no bobcats, I'm excited to be sharing a Journey with you, Heather.)
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01.09.12 - 02:56 PM / 16Shosh said:
I became a member just to comment on your hair : )
I've had short hair twice before, and both times it took me about 2 years to fully grow it out (from super short to shoulder-blade length). What really helped throughout was getting regular trims every 6-8 weeks - my stylist, who I love, would get rid of the awful flippy bits that grew out along my hairline and would stay away from cutting the top, and keep it long. The regular cuts were great, b/c they made me feel like I looked nice even though my hair was nothing like the way I wanted it to look like.
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01.09.12 - 02:54 PM / 17mybottlesup said:
i'm going through this process as well and i've almost had to handcuff my hands behind me so that i don't cut my own hair. the bonus is the pregnancy and wackadoo prenatal/hair growing vitamins. the not-so bonus is that my hair is HUGE and mega wavy. i can only hope that i don't give in to the desire to chop it all off after this baby is born... then again, i'm not exactly logical postpartum.
here's a link to my latest mane/fro picture... http://www.mybottlesup.com/2011/12/according-to-my...
good luck. patience is not a virtue of mine.
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01.09.12 - 03:04 PM / 18Bev Weidner said:
My hair needs to be LOCKED IN A CAGE.
No photo for you!
(get it? soup? never mind.)
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01.09.12 - 03:23 PM / 19beattiestudios said:
Yup! I am doing this as well! I have my next trim on Wednesday and I will post Part Two of my series then.
http://thedabblist.typepad.com/the-dabblist/2011/1...
Warmly,
Elizabeth
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01.09.12 - 03:28 PM / 20luv and kiwi said:
Are you doing okay lady? You always look so stunning in your recent pictures, but there's something in your eyes I can't quite put my finger on.
Lots of love shooting your way.
xoxo
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01.09.12 - 03:30 PM / 21Lauren3 said:
A few years ago... I was 22, I think, just out of college ... I was really into curling my extremely thin and straight hair to make it wavy. It took a lot of work.
My mom heard about this new, supposedly "revolutionary" type of semi-perm that was designed for hair like mine, to make it wavy, just like how I was styling it at the time.
I was NOT buying it, but my mom, her friend, and her friend's hairdresser convinced me to do it over drinks one night.
So in a couple weeks I have an appointment with the stylist I met (who assured me she was a pro at this) to get this perm done. GOD, A PERM. WTF WAS I THINKING.
Anyhow, the stylist starts snipping and chopping away at my hair first, and I'm all, "Wait, how come you're cutting it? I want to look like I have more hair, not less." And she's all, "Don't worry! I am cutting your hair to look BETTER when wavy! This will help!" So she continues to give me the Rod Stewart feather look.
Then comes the 2 hour perm process.
It ends...
AND MY BEAUTIFUL DARK BRUNETTE HAIR IS FUCKING ORANGE FROM THE CHEMICALS.
AND NOT WAVY.
JUST AN ORANGE FRIZZ FEATHERED BALL.
I cried so hard, people... I cried so hard. Couldn't hold it back. I felt guilty and immature, but good god, my hair looked awful.
The stylist, getting upset with guilt herself, is babbling, "I don't know what happened! Oh no, oh no! I'll fix it, and you definitely don't have to pay for this!"
As soon as she said she wouldn't be charging me, I was out of that chair like a pop rocket. I drove home erratically through my veil of vain tears, and when I got there and burst through the door, still crying, the first person I encountered was my nephew, about 8 years old at the time.
He was very concerned about how upset I was, and I calmed down enough to tell him that I didn't like my new haircut.
"It's OK, Aunt Lauren, I like it," he said soothingly, patting my head. "You always look so pretty."
My heart melted.
"But it smells stinky like eggs," he continued, scrunching up his nose.
God I love that kid.
~FIN~
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01.09.12 - 03:32 PM / 22artteach7 said:
I am. And it is so incredibly painful to see me looking this awful! I love my short pixie, but I am at that in-between non-styled stage. I am to chicken to post images. But It looks nowhere near as fabulous as yours, though I do have some good moments!
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01.09.12 - 03:38 PM / 23Sarah_add_allen said:
Yes! But I started from scratch, because that's how I roll. I went through chemo last summer, so my hair is just now growing back in crazy swirls and curls. I had to comment, because I was just talking about this very thing on my FB reader page: www.facebook.com/pages/Sarah-Addison-Allen/3639504...
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01.09.12 - 03:47 PM / 24Arakitten said:
I think you look really cute! I've been growing my hair out for about five months now from just below my ears and it's finally long enough for a ponytail. I would document it's growth with pictures but
a) My camera DIED and I need to get a new one, and
b) I'm pregnant and my face is so fat right now that I look like old Elvis. After he was dead and left in the heat for a few days.
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01.09.12 - 03:48 PM / 25jan001 said:
My hair was almost as short as yours when I decided to let it grow out long enough to donate. I'd always wanted to have really long hair at least once in my life but never got past the awkward cut-this-shit-OFF phases of growing it out. I thought have a worthy goal would help, and it has.
That was in September 2008. As the layers grew out, I had them cut off because I wanted it all to be one length. This photo - http://www.flickr.com/photos/30580050@N05/6349130294 - is my hair as of about 6 weeks ago. The length you see there is what had been my bangs and the areas framing my face a little over 3 years ago - maybe about 2" long then.
Since I want to keep some length after I cut it to donate, I still have a couple more months to go. I'm hoping it'll be "ready" by March sometime but it may take a little longer.
So that's how I went from super short to approaching my waist - doing it with the goal of donating it. Oh, also? Telling people that's what I was doing when they commented on having never seen me with anything other than super-short hair. I figured if I told people my motivation, I'd be less likely to get it chopped off when it became an inconvenience. That's working so far.
I will say that now I totally understand people who go after their own hair with office scissors sometimes..,
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01.09.12 - 03:51 PM / 26nienabmj said:
Here you go, embarrassing photos and all:
http://insidethepuppethead.blogspot.com/2012/01/ha...
I will miss your pixie cut.
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01.09.12 - 03:57 PM / 27strawberrygoldie said:
I thought, for a brief hot moment, that I would grow my hair out. Got it to here:
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=1015045610...
Then promptly cut it. That shit was driving me NUTS.
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=1015047840...
*wondering if those links even work*
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01.09.12 - 04:11 PM / 28jesslikewhoah said:
I'm trying to grow my hair out - I feel like its been short for forever. I did a stint with a weave when I was in hair school and it lasted less than 24 hours. I'm not sure if "long" hair is for me but i've never had hair past my shoulders in all of my 24 years.
I've been reading about ways that will help grow your hair and found many sources that say while it leads to headaches using 2% or 4% miconazole cream on your scalp once or twice a week works wonders and can help grow your hair up to 4 inches!!!!!!!!!! (Hey internet, look at those !!!!!!!) Ya know, miconazole the active ingredient in Monistat or Athletes Foot cremes. I went with the foot cream instead of the vag cream. I put it on twice last week and I'd say my hair grew 1/2 inch and I had a minor headache that was bearable.
Good luck!
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01.09.12 - 04:17 PM / 29kidsmom said:
Whoa. I totally give you credit for making the money you do by blogging about growing out your hair. Ain't America great?
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