Dialogue
I am not about to get political with you over what happened in Arizona this weekend (my husband does that much better and with more color than I do), but I don't want to remain silent either. I've been trying to come up with something to say in addition to the expression of sadness and outrage over this tragedy, and I think the area in which I'm most equipped to make a comment or two is not in the debate over what is and isn't acceptable political rhetoric, or whether or not you should have to jump through more hoops to buy a gun than you do a car. It's this:
If any good dialogue comes out of this mess, please let part of it be about mental illness and access to treatment.
Did Loughner have access to mental health care? Did he seek it? Did he even know to seek it? Did anyone who cared about him urge him to get help? If he had wanted help, would he have been able to afford it?
I don't know the answers to any of these questions, but for most people who suffer from a mental illness, the answer to each and every one of them is almost always NO. And the result is all too often a life of debilitating sadness, occasionally suicide, and in this rare instance a mass killing.
My contribution to this dialogue: don't be afraid to tell someone you care about that you are worried about them. You guys did that for me, and you saved my life.
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sugarleg said:
thanks Heather. a brutal and complex issue. appreciate you lending your voice to the part that resonates with you.
01.10.11 - 03:40 PM / 1deepthoughts78 said:
Agree! It is time that mental health issues leave the realm of taboo so there is more acceptance for asking for, suggesting, and getting help.
01.10.11 - 03:47 PM / 2zipbagofbones said:
I'm amazed this hadn't occurred to me until you said it. I struggle with dystymia, anxiety and seasonal depression, yet the shooter's mental health hadn't even crossed my mind. You're right, this is a conversation we need to have.
01.10.11 - 03:49 PM / 3fishsticked said:
Thanks for taking the time to write this. Jon does do quite a fine job of addressing the political (wonderfully entertaining as well as insightful) but this is something that I hadn't even thought about. That's probably ignorant on my part, but this is a great post. Though short, this says a lot.
01.10.11 - 03:51 PM / 4mustangfilly said:
I live in Tucson, just miles from where this tragedy took place. That is one of the first things that came to my mind: the shooters mental status. There were signs and events that pointed to the fact that he needed help. Either the attempts failed or no one reached out. It is even more sad when events like this could have been avoided, had someone just reached out.
01.10.11 - 03:53 PM / 5cupcake said:
Agreed wholeheartedly. As an artist with two jobs and no insurance of any kind, I constantly struggle with this issue. It breaks my heart to try and support loved ones who struggle with no access to treatment. In these hard times, the lack of affordable care on all fronts leaves too many in the cold.
01.10.11 - 03:53 PM / 6Leahbee said:
Great blog post about this very thing at Jezebel:
"It's hard to say what, if anything, would have helped Loughner, and Marcotte doesn't pretend to have all the answers. But she does point out that although his school demanded he seek therapy, he didn't do so — possibly because finding and paying for therapy in America is still extremely hard. Writes Marcotte, "If a community college student with poor access to health care needs contraception, she knows who to call: Planned Parenthood. We need something like that for people who find themselves in need of mental health services." A Planned Parenthood of mental health care would help the many, many people in this country who are suffering from mental illness and don't know where to turn. Most of these people are not and will never become violent, and getting them the therapy they need wouldn't reduce the national murder rate very much. But it would reduce the number of sick people who can't find help — and that, in itself, is a worthy goal."
Read more: http://jezebel.com/5729833/better-mental-health-ca...
01.10.11 - 03:54 PM / 7girlplease said:
I do agree but also saw excerpts from people who had contact with him including a teacher who said this kid was odd, she wanted him to get help because she said that violence was a long way coming. Mental health reform laws have changed where we can no longer commit someone beyond 48 hours of being a suspect to harm others or themselves UNTIL they actually do, then you have a beyond 48 hour commitment or trial or both (as in this case).
Do I agree that we should encourage those we love to get help? Yes. Do I agree that there is a huge stigma regarding mental illness, even the non-violent kind? Yes. Do I agree that the "system" fails people time and time again including those who actively participate in getting their own help? Hell yea I've been through it.
But to say that no one raised flags or encouraged this person to get help, that isn't true. Sometimes people are too far gone and too determined with their agenda to have this be prevented--for the good of all.
I'm sorry but I agree with your intentions but I disagree with your statement.
01.10.11 - 03:54 PM / 8Aly Beth said:
Did you see this week's episode of Gray's Anatomy? It rang eerily close to this story and explored your sentiment.
I agree.
01.10.11 - 03:54 PM / 9Annie Rhiannon said:
"Did Loughner have access to mental health care? Did he seek it? Did he even know to seek it? Did anyone who cared about him urge him to get help? If he had wanted help, would he have been able to afford it?"
I'm quite shocked that this hadn't occurred to me at all until now. And I've been reading a lot about the case over the past couple of days.
01.10.11 - 03:56 PM / 10strawberrygoldie said:
What is the next step after that? After you have told them that, in my case, you are worried about their child? And you were met with anger and denial?
This has struck a painful chord with me.
The 12 YO son of an old friend of mine (and BFF to my son) seems to me to be hurtling down this path of violence, despair, sadness. It has become so frightening to me that I have cut off ties with them. Her refusal to see the situation, to do anything about it...I feel completely helpless. DSS has been called by another friend of mine. Whether anything has come of that is unknown to us.
What can be done? THIS is why events like Arizona occur. Parents who refuse to SEE, and children who repeatedly slip through the cracks of teachers and social services.
So, so sad. So disheartening.
01.10.11 - 04:03 PM / 11thedaydreamingfool said:
Wonderfully articulated, as per usual..
I think that people also need to know not to be worried to admit that THEY have a problem, that they need help..because there is absolutely nothing wrong with admitting that..in fact..I have a tremendous amount of respect for people who can and are able to do this..
I think that people being scared to admit something may be wrong has been one of the biggest issues facing mental health...at least in my eyes as a young woman who grew up with an unmedicated bipolar mother who is normal as normal can be at times..most times...and who can 'lose it' (thankfully nothing to this degree, but often getting scarily close..) more times then I could even begin to count..
01.10.11 - 04:04 PM / 12girlplease said:
Leahbee a lot of universities have mental health facilities within their system. I do believe it's the stigma attached to it including fear of medication, fear of impact of their grades/admissions (like in this case they said mental therapy it up or you won't be allowed to come back). And in this case note that they were proactive in telling them get help or you can't come--which could have avoided a whole V-Tech incident.
01.10.11 - 04:15 PM / 13Redneck Mommy said:
Well said Heather. I hope for the very same thing.
01.10.11 - 04:16 PM / 14seven2seven8 said:
Hearing about this event saddened me beyond measure. If better access to mental health care will save any life (one which would otherwise be lived in misery, one which would otherwise be taken by suicide, those which would otherwise be taken by homicide), then we must invest in and ensure access to mental health care. Our reluctance to talk about mental illness in this country is truly tragic.
Gabrielle Giffords, the other victims of the attack, the city of Tucson, and their loved ones are in my prayers.
01.10.11 - 04:17 PM / 15Shan Last Shred... said:
Yes, he had access to metal health care. Yes he was told to get some mental health evaluations before he could return to college. His mother works for AZ Dept of Health Services.
Either no one cared or they were oblivious to his issues. That still does not negate the fact that he murdered six people, including a 9 year old girl and it was premeditated.
01.10.11 - 04:18 PM / 16luv and kiwi said:
Refreshing and poignant question! Thank you for that...I feel like you're getting to the heart of the real issue.
01.10.11 - 04:23 PM / 17Sarasnee said:
This is the most mature thing I've heard about this debate the whole time! Kudos. Not to ruin your immature reputation or anything. Go on with the poop.
01.10.11 - 04:26 PM / 18apostate said:
I don't think there's any medical treatment for being a zealot. Wasn't this motivated by religion? That's what I read.
This takes me back to Trolley Square in our own lovely Deseret. Yeah, I remember back then there were a bunch of stories in the News that were written to make me feel sorry for Sulejman Talović, that pathetic excuse for a human being. I remember when his father, in the painful aftermath, had the audacity to tell a reporter that his son was "forgiven" in the eyes of God.
I'm damn near out of sympathy and understanding. And I'm tired of kids at school being blamed or the mental health industry or whoever.
Some people are just shits.
And these Westboro shitheads make Boyd K. Packer seem like a reasonable guy.
All I'm saying.
01.10.11 - 04:42 PM / 19McLeonardstein said:
That is exactly the 1st thing on my mind after reading his youtube postings.
I worked in mental health care system in PHX (same entity as Tucson) for several years. If you are diagnosed SMI it is free. Which I am pretty sure after reading about him, I would guess he is SMI. Sadly, as a case manager I had to quit before I needed mental health care. You are supposed to have 20 on your case load, I had 90. I was getting paid $12/hr as a college graduate, and coming home crying as I could only help so many. SO many fall through the cracks. I had clients I would petition for DTO/DTS only to have them released on the streets hours later due to overcrowding. I could not handle the stress of if a clent hurt someone I could not stop it.
I think the entire nation needs a complete OVERHAUL of mental health care!
01.10.11 - 04:48 PM / 20psweet said:
How can you say 'for most people who suffer from a mental illness, the answer to each and every one of them is almost always NO?'
Do you know most people with mental illness?
01.10.11 - 04:50 PM / 21mycouchhascrumbs said:
Like so many others have said, this didnt even cross my mind when I heard this on the news. But of course it makes sense, who in their right mind would? I should know better, so many of my family, my own mum whom I love, suffers and has struggled for years and years with depression. I myself struggle with it from time to time. Thank you Heather, for being you. For being that voice, because this is a subject that doesnt have enough people speaking for it. Just thank you.
01.10.11 - 04:51 PM / 22Anais Nin Grrl said:
Budgets have been cut for mental health in Arizona. Here is an interesting, well put summary of mental health in AZ: http://desertbeacon.blogspot.com/2011/01/maintaini.... It's a subject of great interest in Jan Brewer's priority list (she has a son in a state hospital with mental health issues). Mental health budgets in Maricopa County alone (Phoenix) have been slashed appr $60 million in the last 2 years. See article: http://www.azcentral.com/arizonarepublic/news/arti....
It saddens me so much. I had a close friend in Phx who is now serving time in prison because he stabbed/killed an acquaintance (stating that demons told him to do it). The reason I believe this is because a couple years prior to this incident, he used to tell me he heard voices (demons and angels fighting in his head) and the demons told him to do bad things. He tried to get help from the state. He WANTED help but, he didn't have the $$ and the state didn't have the $$ or resources to help him and they just turned him away. It's so sad that so many people are left out on the streets. Now he is in the prison system and I just wonder what could have been done to prevent it.
Thanks for raising the issue in relation to mental health. Arizona really needs mental health funding and help!
01.10.11 - 05:01 PM / 23Aunt_Lala said:
As the granddaughter of a paranoid schizophrenic, I am probably a little more sensitive to this issue than your average bear. Thank you, Heather, for bring the mental health aspect of this tragedy to the forefront.
My local newspaper had go a whole separate way with their story, and decided to point out the fact that the shooter is a "long time pot smoker and loner", as if smoking pot is what brought him to the point of no return. I think that's what angered me the most of all the blame games being played, that pot is the cause.
Regardless of what ultimately is the cause of the shooter's actions, we are all responsible for taking steps to try and prevent such a thing from happening again. If making mental health treatment available AND AFFORDABLE is one of those things, then let's get on it.
01.10.11 - 05:06 PM / 24kim at allconsuming said:
A friend of mine had the horrific task of agreeing to turn off the life-support for her husband yesterday.
Her husband who turned 34 last week.
Her husband who hung himself the following day.
He leaves a wife not yet 30, two small small children and myriad family and friends shaking their heads with hearts so full of pain it seems impossible.
Those questions could also be asked here, in Australia and sadly the same response, NO, would be the main response.
Horrendous and in our societies just so very unacceptable.
01.10.11 - 05:08 PM / 25beachreader said:
"That still does not negate the fact that he murdered six people, including a 9 year old girl and it was premeditated."
Well said....and he knew right from wrong. He may have been mentally ill, but that is no excuse for what he did.
01.10.11 - 05:16 PM / 26KCAKelly said:
You posted a link to this on Twitter, and at first, I was hesitant to see what you had to say. I honestly haven't been to your blog in a while, because I grew tired of reading your partisan banter. I paused for a moment today, and followed the link hoping that this is what you would have to say about Arizona.
I do not believe it is for anyone to say who or what influenced this young man, but rather that we should ask ourselves how his mental illness went untreated. A neighbor of his was interviewed, and said she had no idea he had such mental problems until she Googled his name after the tragedy. She couldn't understand how his strange behavior went unnoticed. Unfortunately, I feel that mental health issues are stigmatized, and still very much hidden in our society.
Thank you for bringing attention to the real issue at hand. Let us hope that as a result of this horrible tragedy, our nation can come together regardless of political affiliation, and turn off our TVs, and put down our papers, and start paying attention.
01.10.11 - 05:26 PM / 27GrubStreetNM said:
rE: Did Loughner have access to mental health care? ...Did he even know to seek it?... If he had wanted help, would he have been able to afford it?
He know how to seek college algebra and afforded college tuition. He knew how to see purchasing the gun and afforded it.
01.10.11 - 05:37 PM / 28val0552 said:
Thank you Heather, for bringing attention to this topic and using your vast platform to spread the message. The sad truth is that even people with decent health insurance may not have mental/emotional coverage or be covered to see the provider that best meets their needs.
My son exhibited signs of depression by the age of six years old. Do you know how many child psychiatrists exist and how many accept insurance? Too damn few, that's how many. I count myself as one of the lucky families that could afford to pay out of pocket to access the resources we needed but then I think... look at the train wreck that Britney Spears made of her life a couple years ago. If someone with practically unlimited resources could not/would not get help, that should send a message about how significant the need is.
Sadly, even the healthcare reform act fails to address this issue and I fear that, given the new requirements mandated by legislation, insurers will reduce mental health coverage over time. I hope I am wrong.
01.10.11 - 05:44 PM / 29spedrson said:
Amen! My mom is bipolar and recently diagnosed schizophrenic on top of that. She is so fortunate to have family that can make sure she's taken care of and gets the meds and help she needs. It is shocking how many people do not have that kind of help or refuse the help.
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