xoxo
Posting for the next couple of days is going to be light as we attend several engagements around my Granny Boone's funeral. All nine of her children have gathered from different corners of the country, including many of their own children, so there are like thousands and thousands of Boones running around telling fart jokes, comparing cleavage, and blaming Granny for all of their passive-aggressive tendencies, like oh my god Uncle Timmy YOU DID NOT JUST BRING UP THAT APPLE PIE STORY AGAIN. I'm not going to repeat that story here except to say that we have heard it a kadrillion times, and the point of it is that life is unfair and GRANNY MADE IT SO. Except I'm guessing that growing up poor in Kentucky, working three jobs, raising ten kids (one who died in infancy) and having to boil water every morning on the stove to take a bath... that may explain why she overreacted when he stole a piece of pie.
I love this family, no question, but if a psychiatrist got us all into one room he'd have to wear a helmet and wield a gun.
I spent several hours with them yesterday, and I have so much to say and can't wait to get around to writing it. But right now I want to thank you, you who come here and read what I write. It is because of you that I was able to help fly out many of the cousins and grandchildren who would otherwise be unable to attend this funeral. And I don't know how to tell you just how much it means to me and this family. That because of you and you and you, you in Vancouver, and you in Pittsburgh, and you in Edina, Minnesota, because you come here and share the ups and downs of this totally Wackadoo Family, several grandchildren get to come and say goodbye to their Granny. And the magnitude and meaning of that really blows my mind.
Thank you. I don't say it nearly enough. Thank you so much.
In the meantime, here's a chuckle:
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1. d3 voiceworks said:
what a laugh! resounding! "and now, i'm done. game face on."
2. helen said:
Oh the dimples in action!!!
3. Amy in CT said:
I'm so glad that in some small way your readership has helped in your family's grief. It helps to have such beautiful reminders of young life all around you!
4. fosterhood said:
I'm going to click on some more ads, just for you! R.I.P. to your granny....
5. rbiggs said:
I feel honored to be one of your faithful followers!
6. Sheila said:
Your welcome and thank you!
7. adrienne said:
ummmm .... you're welcome? don't forget that it's your writing and photos that keep people coming back. there's a reason why a whole lot of us have you bookmarked.
8. Dayna said:
I second #6's comment.
9. Rachel said:
Wow, that is a wonderful thing to do for your family, Heather. As one tiny sliver of the audience, you are welcome.
10. Mommy Katie said:
Hope you have a wonderful few days celebrating the life of your Granny!
11. Anonymous said:
So sorry for your loss. Its fantastic that so many of your family can come together to celebrate a life.
12. kikz said:
godspeed, to your granny....*
13. Sarah Pond said:
Well, Armstrongs, right back atcha.
14. Rachel said:
We just love you and your cute family up in here!
15. Debbie said:
As Sheila said, you're welcome and right back atcha. Thanks for giving me a daily escape. I love your family!
16. kdmt9 said:
Heather THANK YOU for sharing your life and family. Reading this site is frequently the bright spot of my day.
17. mediumcrazy said:
Someone's feeling sentimental today... Well thank YOU for being awesome. I hope you enjoy all the bittersweet but wonderful family time.
18. No. 17 Cherry Tree Lane said:
Blessings to your family right now.
19. Laura-Lu said:
No heather thank you for making my day, week, month with your website! we are all blessed!
20. Lyndsay said:
This video should come with a disclaimer: Do not watch this if you are currently wanting another baby. Such sweetness.
21. Erica said:
Heather,
It is so awesome that you thought to fly your family out and even more cool that you are ABLE to do that. I hope this time with your family is good for you and the family. Many good thoughts being sent your way.
Much love from Memphis,
Erica
22. Brat said:
I don't think there's anything worse than missing a funeral of someone you love.
Granny Boone sounds like the salt of the Earth. God bless her!
23. Ariel said:
Family is wonderful, ENJOY having all of yours around being all crazy!
HUGS!
24. Snaptress said:
I'm sorry for your loss. Funerals are always somewhat bittersweet. You get to see your family that might not otherwise get together, but also mourn the loss of a loved one.
What a cute freaking laugh! Also, you are very welcome! I love reading what you write and getting to know you're family. Although, I have to say, you're making me want to have kids sooner by the day! Ahhh!
Haha I thought I was going to wait until I was 30, but who knows, maybe 27 :) I'm 23 now! Please, no more cute baby laughs, or I fear I might push my age limit sooner!
25. eva said:
Sorry for your loss. Isn't it awful that these are often the only times the whole clan gets together?
ps - YAY VANCOUVER! YOU MENTIONED SOMEWHERE IN CANADA! SOMEWHERE I LIVE! WILL READ DOOCE FOREVAH NOW!!
26. Leatitia said:
Thank YOU for all the dimples videos.
27. fat mum slim said:
We come here because you're amazing. You make it quite easy.
Thinking of you and your family. x
28. Josey said:
So happy that your family can be together during times like this! Thank YOU for making us all want to be loyal followers.
29. Britiney said:
Glad I could help! Don't mention it!
30. jive turkey said:
I'm honored to have helped in some small way from way over here in Pittsburgh. Thanks to you for making the site worth clicking on over and over again.
This is when the Internet is truly awesome. Well, this, and also: PICTURES OF BOOBIES.
31. Karen said:
Sorry to hear about your granny. There's nothing better than getting your family together to remember the good times and tell stories you may have never heard before. Treasure all the good times.
32. JulieC said:
Thank YOU, hon for sharing your beautiful family with the world. God bless you all and God bless Granny Boone.
33. dimplecheek said:
Your welcome.
Much love from the you in Vancouver
34. Sara said:
Your Granny Boone always sounded like an amazing woman. So glad your family can be together to celebrate her.
35. victoria said:
crap. you just made me cry. it is all granny boone's fault. bless her heart. and take good care.
36. Lauren From Texas said:
It sounds like you guys are both grieving her death and yet celebrating her life. Nine kids - wow, what a legacy! Your Granny sounds like an amazing woman and I'm sure she would want you all to compare cleavage and tell the Apple Pie story. Hopefully you will win the boob thing, because, you know, BREASTFEEDING. :)
37. Brooke said:
That's amazing that you are able to help your family.
I'm so sorry about your grandma, but from the sounds of it, I would certainly enjoy the Boones! I love crazy families. Well, fun, crazy families. When my grandfather and his wife passed away, the circumstances were, of course, sad, but oh my god, did we have fun. I'm pretty sure I went to a karaoke bar with my cousins and belted out "Another one bites the dust"...and that was just the beginning of it :)
I can't get over how beautiful Marlo is. That dimple and those eyes!
38. Chris said:
We are starting to get little chuckles from the Bean too! They certainly melt hearts.
39. Ruben said:
And even nobodies from as far as the Netherlands read this, you know :-) I guess psychiatrists would LOVE to examine all your followers thoroughly as well.
40. RW_TrueBeauty said:
I'm so sorry about your Granny! From the pics you posted and the stories you tell about raising 10 kids and boiling water to bathe, I can assume she was one fantastic G-Ma and Mom with every excuse in the world to act however she choose and to talk of flatulence whenever she chooses! Sounds a lot like my G-ma :)
It's awesome that you are flying in your family....I'm sure that all of the Dooce haters would be so kind to do the same in this situation.
41. Manda said:
Thanks to you too. I've really enjoyed your website over the years.
42. Abbykins said:
OH! Since I live in Minnesota - I will assume you were talking to me!?? haha -- Love everything you write Heather - and I look forward to reading all about your experiences from the family gathering.... I hope you are taking notes!!
43. MarriageConfessions.com said:
We are starting to get little chuckles from the Bean too! They certainly melt hearts.
44. Jenny said:
Sending prayers to you and your family from Ohio.
45. Shannon said:
Thank YOU for being YOU. The you that is honest, and challenged, and humble, and caring, and kind, and giving, and willing to take a stand for you, your family, heck, even for your readers. You enrich my life just by getting to read about yours. There isn't a day I don't learn something from your site, especially when to use ALL CAPS and (SHINGLES) !!'s So thanks again, Miss Heather B. Armstrong. And God speed, Granny Boone!
p.s. I love captcha. Today I am a bullpen wife!
46. Stori said:
Just wanted to say that I'm sorry about your loss. It's always good to think of the good times, and share with family and friends. Family love always makes me smile.
And, thank you for always writing. Your words make me laugh, and nod in agreement (pretty much all the time). Thank you for writing raw, and not masking thoughts. It helps inspire others (like me) who might be afraid to write opening on the "big bad internet."
47. Kate said:
Your heartfelt thanks is so touching to me. You are an amazing person. I am so glad that your family gets to be together during this celebration of your Granny's life.
48. Mrs. Wilson said:
It is my (our) PLEASURE to read your site, Heather. I hope you enjoy (as much as you can) the time with your family while you say goodbye to your Granny.
xoxo right back atcha.
49. dayment said:
Your family deserves to be together at this time. I hope you enjoy your time together!
50. Kathleen said:
Thanks for writing. You encourage us all. :)
51. foundinidaho said:
Thoughts and prayers with you all. Thanks for being fun to read.
52. claire said:
No Heather, Thank you!!!
Enjoy this time with your family and honoring your grandmother's life.
53. DawnK said:
I'm glad your family was able to get together for the funeral. I'm sorry for your loss. It is fun telling the stories again, even if you have heard them a million times.
54. Liz said:
I'm so sorry about Granny Boone. I am glad that I was introduced to you through a dear friend. Your blog has kept me sane through a lot of problems in my life. Thank you for that. Keep writing and don't let the haters get to you.
55. kasia wska said:
thank YOU!
i come here all the way from warsaw, poland, eastern europe:)
56. Issa said:
She is beautiful. I'm truly sorry for your loss. I lost both of my grandparents last year and the family coming together for a week (when my grandpa passed) was the greatest thing ever.
57. Rita said:
I am so sorry for your loss.
I'm glad that you have the love and support of your family and readers alike.
But my gosh, those dimples!!
58. Suzanne said:
I know you don't mean ME me, Heather, but you're welcome. I'm so glad everyone was able to be together to wish Granny Boone off on her trip to a land with no work and endless hot water.
59. Mary said:
It will be a time full of smiles and sorrows. Try and take in the fellowship of your family. Love them or not (we all have one of those uncles) you're bonded in a way to them that cannot be matched. Hugs to you too..
60. Anonymous said:
XOXOXOXO!!!
61. MamaSkates said:
i agree with #45! love reading u & ur REALNESS every day! sorry 4 ur family's loss!
62. Michelle said:
Glad we could help, and allow you to gather everyone together. It is unfortunate that the only time families really come together are for the "marryings and buryings" as my grandma used to say.
Take your time and enjoy your family. I know when my grandma died that was the last time I saw most of my cousins, we just don't have the excuse to get together any more.
63. Jasie VanGesen said:
Just wanted to extend a hug and a sympathetic "I get it". My grandma died in Spring of 2008 and it was... just... unreal.
64. Amy said:
I think it's insane that the ridiculous entertainment that is dooce.com is free....I've been reading your blog for geez, six, seven years, and I'd gladly pay for the pleasure. It is simply karma that you get paid for sharing.
Hope the Boones are all getting through this difficult time, and so glad the horde could assemble.
65. nuttermother said:
Your welcome - YAY VANCOUVER
66. Moriah said:
I am so glad that this site enabled you to fly out your relatives. That is money well spent!
67. Katie Rojo said:
This is random, but I clicked on the video before pausing iTunes. It was pretty awesome to hear baby laughter on top of Gotan Project.
68. sam said:
hem, hem... i propose a toast:
to community (real or virtual)!
cheers.
69. Jennifer said:
NO Heather, THANK YOU! Cruel anonymous trolls and haters be damned! You have always been authentic to your true self and never compromised who you are as a human. You speak out when its uncomfortable and heavily opposed, and it matters. You will never know how your depression posts helped me when I was cowering in the darkness and so ashamed. I am sorry to put this here, but I want you to see it. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
70. Sara Bonds @ Ordinary and Awesome said:
I am so sorry for your loss. It's wonderful that so many people are coming from all over the country. It sounds like she was a lovely and loved woman.
Isn't the sound of a baby laughing magical!? Thanks for the video. It made me smile.
71. Rebecca said:
*goes on massive ad-clicking spree* love reading your stuff, keep writing!!!
72. Richard said:
Thank you, for your "things that annoy me" lists and tales of unemployment--they are as uplifting as they are hilarious.
73. Lesley said:
And little do grannies know it's those stories of their crazy moments that glue us all together when it counts. I'm so glad you got to have your family together. Thoughts and prayers coming from Colorado.
Marlo's squeaky-toy laugh is just adorable.
74. Belle said:
Awww, LOVE the serious face in between bouts of giggles. Glad all the family could be there, and I hope you're doing okay.
75. Quiltingdaisy said:
I hope our love feels like a Big Warm Hug.
76. Morgan @ the818 said:
I'm so sorry to hear about Granny Boone. It sounds like your family is doing a great job celebrating her life.
77. Wendy said:
I adore your website and have been an avid reader for years. Your down to earth take on motherhood keeps me grounded and not feeling like a failure on the many nights that super mom did not make an appearance. We all do the very best we can...and that just has to be enough.
My condolences on your loss of Granny Boone. She sounds like a fun lady to have known. I hope you and your family can all draw strength and laughter from each other.
Be gentle with yourself...
[wendy padding off to go click ads]
78. K said:
Hugs to you, my family is relatively the same way...LOL
My 15 months daughter loved watching Marlo chuckle. :)
79. K said:
Hugs to you, my family is relatively the same way...LOL
My 15 month old daughter loved watching Marlo chuckle. :)
80. Lauren said:
I absolutely adore this website, and you, and it's posts like this that make me feel good about wasting the day away reading blogs and getting a numb arse :) Glad to help!
81. Hilary said:
I am so glad I found your blog and your book(s)! and in a small way can be a part of your success. Sorry to hear about this loss, she sounds like a stand-up woman. Best to your family.
82. Beth said:
Look at those dimples AND those fingers...precious girl!
83. Carrie said:
So sorry for your loss. :(
You're the best! You make me laugh my butt off every day. I'm amazed at how courageous you are sharing what you share with us. Love the fam too!!
Much love in Edina, MN. I'm sure you meant me! ;)
84. Barstool Babe said:
Isn't it amazing how much laughter can be heard at funerals! That has to be the best expression of a life well lived.
85. Amanda said:
How did you know I was in Edina? (OK, not quite, but CLOSE.) :)
I'm very sorry for your loss, Heather.
I also wanted to say THANK YOU for giving me a nice little escape during the week. I thoroughly enjoy each and every single post of yours. Even the ones involving farts and mucus plugs.
86. Carli said:
I'm sorry about your Granny, but happy that you and your family have this chance to get together and celebrate her life/each other.
87. Nellie said:
I am echoing what like 50 people have already said... sorry for the echo, but I think this is important.
You are welcome!! And, thank YOU! My thoughts (and it sounds like many others) are with you as you grieve your granny. :)
88. Retta said:
So sorry to hear about your granny. My grandmother was a hardworking, incredibly strong woman from Eastern Kentucky who raised nine children as well and getting us all together is unbelievable, wonderful madness. I'm glad that you are able to come together to celebrate such a fine lady as Granny Boone (Any relation to Daniel Boone??)
89. Vivienne Stefani said:
I happen to know they do have internet in heaven, and some very impressive webcams. My own grandmother tells me so. I hope you can find comfort in knowing your family has its very own guardian angel now. God bless you and our indomitable grandmothers.
90. Tina said:
Thinking of you and your family....
91. Jennifer M. said:
I love how pensive she looks at the end of that video. Priceless.
92. WebSavyMom.com said:
-->It's a shame you're flying your family out for a funeral vs. Marlo's birth or a wedding but having everyone around will be a great way to celebrate Granny's life and not her passing.
http://www.websavymom.com
93. Jen said:
You are most welcome. Thank you for sharing so much for us. My best to you and your wackadoo family. (Mine can be a bit wackadoo as well... and I wouldn't have it any other way.)
94. earthtoholly said:
Having been born in eastern Kentucky, with some family still there, I understand the need of some for a little help, and how kind of you take care of yours. Your family is lucky to have you, and those grandchildren will forever remember Cousin Heather for her kindness.
Marlo is adorable and is looking so much like Leta.
Peace to you as you celebrate your Granny's life...
95. Jamie said:
That is so freakin awesome you're doing that for your family. I get so much out of reading all the things you share of your life, I am so pleased that it's benefiting your family, especially in this instance.
96. Annie said:
Europe loves you too, guys! mwah!
ps. these are some killer captchas you have down here dude! I almost started doubting being a human myself =P
97. Esther said:
My sympathies to you and your family.
Marlo has the longest fingers--She's gorgeous!
98. Caitlin said:
It's about TIME us non-haters got a thank you! I was wondering if you even remembered not all of your readers live to send you vile spew! So glad your family got to say their goodbyes in person; remind me of my grandpa's funeral which was more a celebration of life than anything else, as cheesy as that sounds.
Best!
99. beyond said:
i hope you have a good time with your family as you celebrate your grandmother's life. happy memories and shared emotions are so healing.
100. Geneva said:
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Remember, England loves you, too!
And that video has just made me very broody.
Much <3
101. Ali said:
Thank YOU for sharing your wackadoo family with us. Thoughts are with you as you start to grieve. I lost my beloved (and wacky) Granny almost 3 years ago, and it took a long time to think about her without tears ... and sometimes I still do, but now it's mostly smiles and laughter. Hang in there. Enjoy the love and craziness of your family as you all face this loss. Lots of love coming at you guys from the internet. :)
102. Emilie Campbell said:
That is the bomb that you're able to bring people there for the funeral. I love it. I'm all about sharing the love, so good for you.
103. Amy said:
No really, thank YOU for doing what you do. Your writing is like one long favourite book that never ends and even after 4 years of reading, (wow, 4 YEARS!) I still get a thrill when you put up a new post. Blows your mind when you think about it.
Sending hugs all the way from Auckland, New Zealand.
104. Nadine said:
You are so very welcome. I'm delighted you were able to help your family!
105. Ali said:
I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
106. tokenblogger said:
I am so glad you were able to assist your family on this sad occasion. They will ever forget it (good or bad).
Sorry for your loss.
107. Nariane said:
glad to know just being here and reading can help.
I'm sorry for your loss
108. Anonymous said:
You're welcome!
109. Mama B said:
Thank you for thanking us, your loyal readers. However, I/we owe all the thanks to YOU. You bring some good, strong emotion each time I read your blog. You share with us openly the ups and downs of your life with your wonderful family. If me reading your blog means you can bring more family to mourn together, that just makes my day. But, really, it's all because of you. (And Leta, Marlo, the dogs, the hubby all help, too). Thank YOU, Heather. Really. Thank you.
110. pam said:
You're welcome...
111. Margaret said:
You're welcome... One day after my second child was born I was sitting here just crying and hopeless and feeling like I could never manage my life again. Then I read the post about the day Coco pooped everywhere... I seriously laughed my ass off.
So thanks for that.
Mothers helping others...even anonymously...is awesome.
112. nitebyrd said:
Condolences, Heather.
113. Nina said:
I think you're wonderful. It's life affirming to open your page on a daily basis. Thank you for sharing.
114. James John Malcolm said:
The internet is glad.
115. Elaine said:
Your family is in my prayers, Heather.
<3
Elaine in Pittsburgh
116. Marcy said:
I often read blogs via reader, but lately I've been making a point of clicking through to your blog to help support you... and maybe I'll go click a few ads, too, just for the fun of it.
My family all came together for my grandfather's funeral this past summer, and it sounds like that gathering was very similar to what you're enjoying now. ; ) How wonderful to get to play some small part in helping it happen.
BTW my CAPTCHA for this comment is "passed poohed", no joke.
117. SunflowerJ said:
You are welcome. My condolences to your family.
118. Julie H. said:
Hi Heather,
I'm sorry for the loss of your Granny Boone. I'm glad that us readers could help you to unite your family for the funeral. You're most welcome! Also, THANK YOU for brightening my day with your stories and photos, and for opening up your life to the Internet.
Take care,
Julie
119. Alfriston said:
Sincere condolences to you and your family on the death of your dear Granny Boone. I'm sure your most faithful readers will understand if your posting is light for a few days as you grieve the loss but celebrate the life of such a remarkable lady. I frequently end up in tears reading your amazing posts. You are such a gifted writer; often I laugh until tears come to my eyes, but sometimes you move me to tears with your honest, insightful posts. Take care, and we look forward to more regular updates when you feel up to it.
120. Ms. Pants said:
Condolences and love sent from Houston, Texas.
I wonder how much the monetized-hate is bringing in? I make a point to check it out at least a couple times a week to give y'all page views. (Should I be clicking as well? Whatever I can do to further piss off the haters....)
121. Lisa said:
I'll just keep on clicking on every ad link on your page to show my support :)
122. Anonymous said:
Bless you for sharing your bounty with family. Not everyone would do that.
And bless you for sharing your journey - even the painful parts - with us.
Chris
123. Katherine Sweet said:
Thanks for giving me something wonderful to read and encouraging me I could be a mom and that no one ever really has it together. Laughing my way through your posts has gotten me through the last few weeks with less then two weeks til my baby is due. It has made me a better writer and I might say even a better mom because I know the first secret. Keep up the good writing and be blessed.
124. Kristan said:
Now I really want to hear the pie story...
125. Sara Joy said:
My pleasure. You work hard, you earned it. Our prayers are with you all. (I'm a yankee, I just couldn't do it...I tried but they're just two separate words. I hope you write in drawl when you return, hehe.)
126. Nancy in MN said:
you're welcome
127. Anne said:
Thanks for the shout out to Minnesota! I am very close to Edina, in St. Paul.
Also, I am so sorry for your loss, Heather. Grandmothers are so special. I just have to say that it is wonderful that you were able to get all your family together. What a gift.
Thank you for your continuing to share your life! You make me laugh!
128. Adrienne said:
Just for that, I'm clicking on some ads today!
129. Sandie said:
Hello! I just found my way to your blog via your hate site-- which, while entertaining, was also really sad. Who are those people (person?!) and why do they read your site if they hate it so much? I applaud you for being able to mock the haters and will continue to read your normal, happy blog.
P.S. I am going to creep around on your site and find out what your kids wear. If there are that strong of opinions regarding children's wear, I am dying to see it. And likely like it.
My condolences to you and your family.
130. Alex said:
Pittsburgh, Vancouver and Edina? That's not the half of it! Honey, don't underestimate yourself! Frankfurt, Germany and Barcelona, Spain are reading your blog, too.
Sorry to hear about your loss, but Granny Boone will always be there for you in your heart and memory.
131. Angela said:
So sorry to hear about your grandma.
Now I'm gonna start clicking :)
132. Katherine said:
A big, hearty "You're very welcome" from Cleveland.
And there is absolutely nothing more gratifying than being able to help your family. My fiancee and I are very happily scraping up what little money we have so some of his relatives can attend our wedding. Every cent = well worth the sacrifice.
Love to the Armstrongs & Boones.
133. Missives From Suburbia said:
Really? Edina? That's like the Salt Lake City of Minnesota. But smaller and whiter. (I know, WHITER!)
Can we hear the pie story?
134. stephanie said:
What a wonderful thing you did....if we helped in anyway you are welcome....
From a simple girl in a small KY town....hugs to you and your family...enjoy the time with the extended family
135. Jennifer McGill Halloran said:
My heart goes out to you and your family, Heather. It was SO great to see a picture of Lori whom I haven't seen since we palled around together at girl's camp during the summers when she was visiting your family. And 'Tember looks fabulous, too, although she'll ALWAYS be a blond as far as I'm concerned. Hope the reunion goes well -- for everyone -- as you celebrate her life.
Love and condolences from all the McGills.
136. Lisa said:
I bet Granny is smiling down from heaven at you. It's better than the drugs and firearms that you usually spend your money on.
137. Susan said:
We're gonna grow old together, Heather. Bless you.
138. Liam's Grandma said:
Thank you for your touching comments. Losing a loved one, especially a matriarch of a family who really gave an example of what it means to be steadfast and work hard, reminds us of what is important in life - family. Always.
139. Ray said:
"I love this family, no question, but if a psychiatrist got us all into one room he'd have to wear a helmet and wield a gun."
^^Thank you for the laugh! I think a lot of people can say the same for their own families. =D
And I think it's awesome that through this site you were able to fly out your family members so that they could be there for the funeral. So great that you have so many loved ones around you during this time.
Take, care.
140. Meredith said:
You are more than welcome. Keep writing these awesome posts, and I will keep doing my part to make it all possible. After all, I can totally appreciate the being able to sit on your porch writing for a living lifestyle -- it's what I'd like to do some day as well. =)
141. Mrs. D said:
Thank you, for writing despite the cranks. And for sharing with us your ups and downs in such a beautiful way.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
142. Cláudia Silva said:
Thank YOU!
143. Heather said:
I'll be thinking of you and your family. I hope you have a great time together, even with the circumstances.
144. LaurieAnne said:
Thanks for being you, Heather. Hope you and your ca-razy family hold each other up during this tough time.
Marlo has the most ja-dorable giggle!!!
145. witchypoo said:
I'm thrilled that you are in a position to help out family members, and doubly that you have the grace to do so.
We come back and click because you are a totally amazing writer.
I hope there's lots of pie at the wake.
146. Ashley said:
Oh my gosh, you just made me cry a little AT WORK, Heather B. Armstrong. That's how I always refer to you when I'm reading this site and my husband asks what I'm doing. Like hello, I'm reading the Very Important Blog of Heather B. Armstrong. Duh. I say it just like that too.
Anyways, my thoughts are with you & your fam as you go through what is undoubtedly an awful time. xoxo
147. Leslie said:
Baby! SQUEEE!
I am very sorry to hear about your grandmother. I lost mine last October, and it was definitely very hard seeing my mom and her eight siblings in so much pain. That was definitely the hardest part for me.
But at the same time, it was great to spend time with my large crazy southern family as well. :)
148. Trish said:
Vancouver thanks you right back, Heather. I'm so glad you were able to bring the family together for Granny Boone.
I bet those girls and your hubby make things just a tad bit better during times like these. You are awesome. Thanks for sharing your life with us.
149. Jane said:
Deepest condolences to you and your family Heather. I have read everything you have written on this blog and it has brought me information, laughs, tears... so thank YOU.
150. Cris said:
xoxo :)
151. krystyna81 said:
Sometimes, it seems like families only get together for weddings or funerals. Here's hoping that the next occassion is a joyous one.
And bravo to you for helping bring the family together. Truth be told there are not many people out there who would do that. You are truly honoring your grandmother.
152. Amy said:
Heather,
Your first post about your Granny made me cry because it made me remember MY Granny. And that's what we called her... Granny. She's the one who said to us (when we were fighting for her attention by saying, granny, granny, GRANNY! and then, being 5, forgetting what we'd want to say) "well, it must have been a lie!" And sometimes if we were in her way in the kitchen she often known to yell, "get outta my wagon!" (In swedish, get out of my way is something like du er ie vagon). She was known to break out in song at the mention of any word that might remind her of one.
I miss her more than words can say.
So, I'm sending lots of heart felt thoughts to you and your family. Have a wonderful time remembering your Granny. And thank YOU for helping me to remember mine. Hugs to you...
153. Rachel M. said:
<3 to all of you.
154. j.cro said:
You're welcome. And thank you for making us laugh, no matter what the haters say.
155. Anonymous said:
I am very sorry for your loss. Glad that you are surrounded by family during what is surely a difficult time. All the best.
156. Gemma said:
Hey, you forgot us across the pond!!
Sending thoughts out to you all. The death of close family members is such a horrid, horrid thing.
157. lindsayc said:
How wonderful that you can help your family out. May you all find peace in being together during this sad time. RIP Granny Boone.
158. Penelope said:
So glad you were able to help those who would otherwise have been unable to attend. Thanks for a heartfelt blog, one that always elicits emotion. You're awesome.
159. kristin k said:
This got me all teary eyed too. You thanking US made me think about all you have given ME. That's what I love so much about this site. It's like this perfect balance of give and take. I just LOVE being one of your sheep, O' shepherd.
160. sarah said:
You're welcome, and thanks for sharing your life with us!! You're fun.
161. Vee said:
Thanks for sharing your life and your family despite all the ugly emails and comments you get.
Many, many hugs to you and your loved ones. I'm so gald we can help in a small way.
162. Lilian - Mama(e) in Translation said:
I'm really, really sorry about your grandma. The photo of her that you posted makes me think that she must have been a lovely person.
You don't really have to thank your readers, it's a pleasure to read your blog and I think it's awesome that you can make a living this way. More power to you and good for your family/cousins!! It's really lovely that you helped to fly people out to the funeral.
Like other people already said, it's a bittersweet time and it feels strange to say "Enjoy it," but that's precisely what I want say. That and "You're welcome" -- I'm glad to know that as a regular reader I have a teeny tiny part in the "family reunion" that is taking place with your granny's funeral. Yes, enjoy it. (and please come tell us all you can about it after it's over, deal?)
P.S. Oh, and I think your aunt (photo posted earlier) looks a lot like her mama. (your sister doesn't look too much like you, though! ;-).
163. Amanda said:
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I am glad that lots of your family gets to be there though, and that your accent exists again. ;)
164. juls said:
I only remember the death of one grandfather of mine, everyone else died before I was born and my parents didn't let me attend his funeral (though I've had already seen his body taken away from his home to the mortician) but I have to say that the chance to meet family and to say goodbye (as I did six years later to my father) to the one gone into heaven, meant the world to me. I'm thinking of you and your family.
165. Sue said:
Dammit, Heather. Quit making me cry at work.
warm thoughts and hugs to all of Granny Boone's family.
166. Nicole s said:
Thank you for all the laughs and smiles. Sorry for your loss.
167. Vanessa said:
it's funny how all we're really doing is reading what you have to say for our entertainment, yet all these people benefit from it. i guess it works both ways! we're not even putting in any effort, just enjoying your blog, and you get money to bring your family together, that's pretty cool :)
168. Alexis said:
169. Alexis said:
Grin!
170. Rebecca said:
Heather - you are an absolute gem... I completely adore you and your family; we, the Internets, are the lucky ones to have you grace us with the presence with your eloquent postings, which read more and more like heart-felt love stories about your totally awesome family.
I am so sorry for your loss - I know that having your entire family surrounding you during this time will help heal some of the pain.
Do take care, and let us know if you need anything (else)! :)
Much love from Texas,
171. Michelle said:
Why do we always wait until something like this to get together with our families. I have cousins I haven't seen since I was a child and I am pretty sure that I won't any time soon. It's a horrible shame that we are such a disconnected society these days.
172. fisheggs said:
Sorry for your loss. Funerals can be wacky sometimes.
173. junniemuffin said:
I have enjoyed your blog over the years, I feel like you are part of my family. Thank you for your honest and direct writing and most of all I admire your courage. To be so open and so bold. I am so very sorry for your loss. Your granny sounds like a character!
174. Mary said:
We're all glad to help in the little way we can. And thank you for putting yourself out there and making so many of us laugh on a daily basis.
175. Olya said:
Life is unfair, yes it is…Enjoy the thousands of Boones around you and keep bringing us here.
I missed my Granny’s funeral few years ago due to “playing” an emigrant from Bulgaria. I’d share a room with her for 10 years and an apartment for 24, but I never got to really know why I resemble her persona so much.
Thank you for doing what you are doing!Keeps my beliefs intact.
176. Amy Bjorge said:
Here's to extended family, conference Sunday, and apostasy.
Cheers.
177. Robyn said:
A nice feeling to know that our blind sheep adoration has meant we could help in any small way. You, and now your amazingly normal Wackadoo family, have kept me entertained for years.
A You in Melbourne, Australia.
178. Karen said:
I am sorry for you and your families loss.
Hugs and prayers to you all.
179. Ulla said:
I'm so sorry about your grandmothers passing, but I am so happy that by reading your wonderful stories we are helping your family through this time. I know you have many stories to tell staring your grandmother, and I can't wait to read them. She looked like a great lady, I've never seen such sparkly white hair.
I will be thinking of you and your family.
180. Katie said:
And me in Australia. You're welcome!! It feels good to be able to help others get to meaningful things. We fly my parents in law down every christmas and grandchild brithday so that they can share in something they otherwise would miss out on. Enjoy those Boones! xx
181. Jo-Jo Murphy said:
Heather, you're the one who voices so many of the experiences, beliefs and jokes that I wish I could say out loud to millions. In a cosmic sort of way, I guess you were elected to be the spokesperson for moms who haven't had the easiest time being parents, yet love this job more than anything else we've ever done.
My heart goes out to you and your family as you remember your Granny and rejoice that some of her feisty genes were handed down.
And, that giggly baby video reminded me once again that there's no better cure for what ails you than the pure joy of laughing for no damn good reason.
182. Sandy said:
Saying goodbye.
Soft fingers gently wrap up what has been
and seal what has been shared in gentle thoughts to always remember.
It is standing still at little chunks of life, peaks of joy and pain.
Saying goodbye is gratefully cherishing everything that is valuable and never forget.
Truly sorry for your loss. I hope, through all the family-chaos-applepie-insanity, you find comfort and warmth with each other. Actually, I'm sure you will. Thank you for brightening up our days with your chunks of life. And you're more than welcome, you deserve it.
S.
183. Malgrin said:
You inspire me. Today, particularly.
Warm thoughts for you and yours.
184. Amy J. said:
You're welcome :).
185. Caren Jew said:
So, so sorry about your Granny. And I wouldn't be anywhere BUT along for the ride! Thanks for all you do Heather.
186. Tobamom said:
Celebrate your granny's life as you celebrate each other and the ties that bind you. God's peace to all of you.
187. Anonymous said:
In case you're wondering just how cute that kid is, my uterus aches each time I play that - the count of which is totally not in the dozens...
188. Emily said:
Sounds like my family! I get to spend Thanksgiving with the crazier half...oye! ;)
189. Kristi said:
My ten week old son was laying next to me, squirming and making all sorts of noise, but as soon as I played the video of Marlo, he got very quiet and still. I think someone has a crush. :D
190. Moya said:
Sorry about your loss, and thanks for sharing the giggles. I'm also sorry that your family isn't Irish, because there is nothing better at our family wakes than adding the whiskey in the corner cabinet to all of the death stories, and I would LOVE to hear your version of those...
191. Florida Jen said:
No, thank you! And by the way, your children are precious!
192. kkg said:
Happy to read your words any day! What a little beauty!
193. Holly Reynolds said:
Reading over here in Germany and spreading the word as well!!!
Sorry for your loss, but glad you get to spend time with your family. Even crazy family gatherings make for some great stories & memories!
194. Melanie said:
No, Heather. Thank you. For bringing smiles, tears, laughter and fun to my days. If, in some small way, that has helped you do the things you want in your life, then the Internet is a good place.
Hugs to you, your extended family and even the guy who stole the pie. :) We'll be here when you get back.
195. Sarah @ BecomingSarah.com said:
You're welcome =)
Enjoy this time with your family. I am so sorry for your loss, but I hope that you all enjoy sharing memories and celebrating your Granny's life over these next few days.
196. Jenny said:
How wonderful that you could do that for your family. I can't wait to read about all the stories that come out of the next few days. I hope that the laughter and joy outweigh the tears. What a legacy your Granny has left behind.
197. TC said:
That is a great thing to do for your relatives. You are a good person and don't let anyone tell you any different ever!
I've been reading the hate pages if you can't tell.
My condolences on your Grandmothers passing also.
198. AmberStar said:
I'm so sorry about the loss of your grandmother. Those are hard...I still miss both of mine. Keep her in your heart and the pie story, too.
Your blog gives a lot of joy and thoughtfulness, and sometimes even crankiness. You are human and I celebrate that about you.
Marlo's very cute in that videoclip. I can't wait until she laughs like right out loud....hehehehe
199. Maddie said:
No, thank YOU! Love your work, Maddie (Christchurch, NZ)
200. Jessica said:
XOXO right back atcha :-)
Also, I am hereby entering my vote for "Wackadoo Land" to somehow make it into your next masthead ;-)
201. Christina said:
Dooce, don't forget those of us in the UK / Europe. Your family is so adorable and your blogging so addictive. I am glad that you are able to ensure your extended family is together at this time through the power of your blogging.
You make me want to blog. I'm sure I could give you a run for your money. You think your family is crazy??! Try being a Fowler!
Anyways, much love to your family at this time. Your Granny Boone was very blessed to have such a large family, and I hope you all think of her fondly.
202. Janice said:
So sorry for your loss, Heather. Think it might be a nice gesture to honor of your granny's memory by telling the apple pie story, yes?
203. Heather S. said:
xoxo, right back at ya. Sending you and your entire family happy thoughts!
204. Mrs Millard said:
We wouldn't have it any other way. Keep posting and making us smile. Love to you all at this time x
205. Meghan said:
Isn't it amazing how each blessing can bring us misfortune and each misfortune can bring us blessing? It's this circle that makes life so very painful and so very f-ing worth it.
206. Anonymous said:
My sincere condolences to you and your family. I'm not sure if this is appriopriate but I can't wait to see the hate mail this post produces. Those folks are so crazy, spiteful and ugly it's hilarious.
207. Jackie Hall said:
I'm so sorry to hear about your Granny Boone. It hurts like hell when someone you love passes. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
208. Anonymous said:
You're welcome, and thank you for helping me keep sane with all your daily insanity. If that makes any sense.
209. Isabel said:
Sorry for you loss. You're welcome, all the way from Honduras. Yes, you have readers from a tiny Central American country as well.
210. Amber said:
Ha! Circle Pines, MN loves you too.
My dear friend FuzzyNoodleKnits just lost her grandmother last week as well. I've sent her your way for humor and insight to help her get through the tough times.
Warm wishes and kind thoughts to you and your family.
211. Miss Behavin said:
OMG...the eyes! Marlo and Leta have the biggest, roundest, most beautiful eyes. They remind me of my daughter, Carley, who remained bald until she was two, poor thing, but my God! those eyes - so serious, like an old soul in a new body!
I'll be keeping you and your family in my thoughts!
212. Lisa said:
Thank YOU. God's peace and blessings to you and your family during this tough time.
213. lisa said:
Where is Kentucky was your grandma from? (See, look at that great grammar- I am an English major, but I got my degree in Kentucky so it's okay) I live in Louisville, KY and my family is all from here too. Sending you good vibes from the Bluegrass State!
214. Kathy Sue said:
I am sorry for your loss, and glad that "we" could help you.. Great giggles from the Marlo.
215. Tripping Daisy said:
I recently lost my grandmother, so I kind of know how it feels to lose,yet rejoice in the memory of one crazy lady. Maybe they are somewhere comparing boob stories? I am sorry for your loss. Thanks for a great blog, you never fail to bring a smirk to my face.
216. zenmomma said:
Love ya Heather! I'm off to click some ads for Granny Boone. :o)
217. Chanel said:
AND ME IN D.C
you're welcome. you deserve it.
I would love to eat apple pie out of Marlo's dimple. scrumptious
218. Mama M. said:
I'm sorry to hear of your Granny's passing...but is sounds as if your family is doing a fabulous job of celebrating her life! Good for you! And good for you for making sure that everyone could get to say good-bye to her.
219. Ev said:
You're welcome, Heather. And thank you for sharing your family with us.
220. Chriss said:
So sorry for your loss.
221. Angel Blazer said:
And me in Ashland, OR. stuck in my cubistall!! I've been reading your site since 2002 and its been nothing but a pleasure to follow you and your family.
Now, I'm off to go click on some ads, especially the monetizing the hate page.
222. lisa said:
i am so sorry about your grandmother. please know my thoughts are with you and your family.
223. AboutWee said:
My condolences to you & your beautiful family. I was so glad to read that you were able to fly the family across for the funeral & memorials. What a lovely gesture & more importantly what a truly wonderful lesson to your daughters - how to spend your money in a way that will benefit others. Indeed a touching tribute to your Granny too that her unselfish & generous legacy lives on.
Take care & sending you strength at this time.... all the way from Melbourne, Australia. (I know my city was not mentioned, but I'll still keep reading!)
AboutWee xo
224. Anjana said:
You're welcome Dooooooooce - glad we could help! Just keep up the good work...
225. Katie said:
You're welcome... :-)
Also, does anyone else think Marlo looks a lot like Leta at that age? Or is that just me?
226. Mrs. McGoogle said:
My condolences. Granny is smiling proudly down on all of you. Even Uncle Tommy.
227. Mrs. McGoogle said:
My condolences. Granny is smiling proudly down on all of you. Even Uncle Tommy.
228. Linda @ My Trendy Tykes said:
I am sorry to hear of your loss.
229. Sunny said:
Your site helps make my day. I'm glad it's returning the favor :)
230. Jay @ TheDocDidntTellMe said:
I had a Grandma Boone, Heather. She was my great-grandmother and her daughter, Frankie Mae, was my dear grandma and I was so, so sad when she died. My son was four months old when she passed away unexpectedly 17 years ago, but she'll never be forgotten because I named my son after her (maiden name) - Boone. Is it an awesome name, or what?! I'm a great fan of your opinions (and writing - oh, and photography, plus your husband's work) and always find a laugh or 12 when I visit the blog. But reading about Granny Boone made me cry. God bless. She's in heaven now with Frankie Mae and it's my hope that they're beaming down smiles of goodness and blessings on us all. Amen.
231. Linnie said:
Hey Heather--here's hoping that even the Haters feel good about their part in helping your family come together. Everybody has a Granny.
232. Calamity Jill said:
This got me all warm inside.
I swear, it's not gas.
233. jayne said:
I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry, because when I read your "cycles" post, I mistakenly read about your Granny Boone's passing "about an hour ago" as "about a year ago" because I read too fast at times. I'm so, so sorry, for reading it wrong and for not offering my sincere condolences til now.
My thoughts are with all of you. (Though it's small comfort, offering the thoughts of a moron.)
I'm glad, though, to know that my moronic reading (however rushed it may be) may have contributed in some small way to helping you bring family to Utah for to say goodbye. Granny Boone must be so proud of you.
234. Christina said:
Hi, first time poster, but Ive lurked behind the scenes for...years now. I'd like to send out my warmest thoughts to your family in this hour of pain. I also just wanted to take a moment to do something I havent had the guts to do in the past, and I dont know how in depth you read your comments. I just wanted to let you know I think you are an absolutly amazing person, and you have a beatiful family. Seriously, I love getting up in the morning and in my non-mommy time, with my first cup of coffee in hand I generally pop your website open first. I applaude you in the courage that you have to continue posting the most private things about yourself and your family ( yes I have horrid grammer) even when people have called you every name in the book, made up a few f their own and questioned every movement you have made in your life. I also adore you for having the courage to talk about what it was like for you to have to deal with post-partum depression. We dont have enough people out there saying, this is real, this hurts, it fucking sucks. I have a dibilitating depression that some mornings, I have to talk myself out of bed ( but with 4 kids, trust me I have to find the way :) ).
Anyhow, sorry rambling....I think your an amazing person Heather and your crew....adore you all
235. workroom said:
aw that last chuckle ended on such a sad face... a face that suddenly understood the enormity of life, death, and all of the difficult periods in between... how dare you transfer that kind of aura from your damaged self to your innocent babe's right underarm!
you must be the worst mother ever.
ps: ; P
236. carol c said:
wow. that's really an honour to assist during this trying time, even though I feel like we haven't done much. my condolences to you and your family. I hope you will be able to find peace during this difficult time.
237. Joanna said:
Off to click a few extra ad's, you know, just to show some support :)
After having attended way too many of my own family's funerals, I know how much the support of other family members means. Even if all you can do to get through the day is tell jokes about each other and eat cold cuts from that tray that someone's deacon's wife brought you, it's enough to start the healing in a positive light.
238. robyn said:
I love the stories about your family....what a fun bunch to hang out with! I'm glad everyone is together and talking about your granny's life. And what a strange concept that the internet was partially responsible for that? Hmm. Gotta love that.
re: Momversation. I have a favourite child. I'll admit it, but I won't admit which one is my fave. :-)
239. Kat's Mom said:
I meant to offer my condolences earlier, Heather. So sorry about the loss of your Granny Boone.
240. christine said:
thinking about you from a teeny weeny rural village in ontario, canada. you entertain me on a daily basis through your words, you inspire me with your honesty and make me feel like less of a one-off than just a regular mom taking each day as it comes. glad you are able to be surrounded by family at the moment. i only wish my own grandmother could have met my baby before her time was up...
241. Anonymous said:
Thinking of you and your big, loving family. I'm so glad that so many are able to come share their grief and stories. I know what a difference it makes in the face of loss.
242. Ms. Moon said:
Ah hell, girl. You're a writer. You get paid for writing and that's only fair and right. No pun intended.
Celebrate your granny. She sounds like she was one hell of a gal.
243. libby @ ninesandquines said:
you are welcome and thank YOU for sharing your gift of writing with us....
244. the niffer said:
Thank you, Heather, for sharing your life with us. I'm so glad you were able to bring your family together to celebrate Granny's Boone's life.
245. libby @ ninesandquines said:
you are welcome and thank YOU for sharing your gift of writing with us....
246. courtney said:
I've only recently discovered your blog, now it's become one of my must clicks every morning when I get to work. When I read your posts, you can totally imagine you saying them, even though I've never met you, I feel as though we're having a conversation...
I'll be clicking on some adds too!
you're welcome from Sydney, Australia...
247. Deb S. said:
No, Heather - thank YOU. You have so many times made me laugh, especially when I've had a really crappy day. Very sorry to hear about your grandmother.
248. Diana, The Doggy Mommy said:
Your Welcome!
I can't wait to hear all the stories! I could feel them swirling around in your head! LOL
Thanks for the chuckle.
X0X0
249. Erika said:
What goes around...
Heather, since you are so willing to put yourself out there...it is only fair that we help to bring your family to you. Good thoughts for you and yours, and may many a chuckle find their way into your time together with them!
250. Andrea said:
You are very welcome. I look forward to my little 'blog-break' everyday, and you are always at the top of my list. And while we are on the subject of thanks, I'd like to thank you for your support of hand-made items from etsy etc. I was reminded of how great that is by reading your 'hate' section (which often makes me faintly queasy, I don't know how you stand it, but I admire you like crazy for making the haters work for you. That's why I read your 'hate' section, so that I can contribute to your monetizing of it) Anyhow, one of them was ranting about your 'expensive' throw pillows (how dare you buy nice things!) and it made me want to thank you personally for helping those people who pour their passion, hard work, and creativity into beautiful handmade things by BUYING THEM. As someone who makes beautiful, time intensive and therefore expensive things, and would like to make a living from them - I thank you from the bottom of my hydro bill.
Sorry for the non-related tangent, but its been in my head for a couple of days now, and I just wanted to let you know.
Peace and support to you and your family in this hard time.
251. Anonymous said:
That's a great way to use the money. Well done.
252. kristin said:
You are most welcome. Thank you for your stories.
253. Amanda from California said:
PITTSBURGH! I go to school here! And I'm so happy to help your family out. Best wishes in a difficult time.
Also: CAPCHA! Invented by a professor here at my school. Wee!
254. mynext50.blogspot.com said:
All I have done is think about my Mom Mom since I read about your Granny. She was the best. Thank you for bringing her to my mind.
Mom Mom was only 43 when I was born, and I have an older cousin by my mom’s youngest sister (ponder that one for awhile).
I spent as much time at my Mom Mom’s as possible from the time I was born. I loved everything about her. She had silver hair. She never yelled at me, ever. She made me whatever I wanted to eat, which was always spaghetti, whenever I wanted it. We even took baths together, a couple of inches of water became the deep end when she got in, she was fat. And after she got out, she let me close the sliding glass doors to the tub, lie down and slide really fast back and forth to make tidal waves. She didn’t even care if it hit the ceiling, now that’s a great grandmother.
255. Deb said:
How wonderful that your family could come together to celebrate your granny's life. I am sorry for your loss and I know you will all miss her. She will still have a presence in your lives, just differently. Little things will remind you of her and that is a great comfort.
To all the people who write you nasty emials, poo on them. These acts of kindness and love towards your family is the Heather I see everyday in your writing.
Deb in Syracuse, NY
256. Russ Weasel Laughlin said:
I don't know if you've seen the new hospital drama "Mercy" on NBC, but one of the lead actresses, Taylor Schilling could TOTALLY PLAY YOU, in the Lifetime/Oxygen movie about your life...
Not a dead ringer, but she has a very Dooce quality. Just my two cents.
257. robinv said:
family.... cool family, that's what you are like to us.
258. Carolyn said:
Don't forget Sioux Falls, SD.
Also, I saw this on the Huff and thought you'd enjoy it.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/10/03/photos-adorable-newborn-p_n_306...
259. Gooseberried said:
Oh my, she has the cutest little laugh ever! Adorable! :)
260. Free Lion said:
okay that was off the CUTE-O-METER scale!! thanks for sharing such a precious moment.
261. Angie said:
Glad to hear all my clicking paid off. You are a great joy to many, but, um , well, it kinda looks like you are torturing your kid in that video. I'll page view 3 more times just to make up for that comment. Thinking of you and the Boone's!
262. schmutzie said:
This is why I bother to click through from my feed reader every time you update.
263. Anonymous said:
You're welcome, Heather. =]
264. The Mrs. said:
Thank you, Heather, for sharing your life with us. You are a beautiful, talented, loving woman. Your family is in my thoughts & prayers!
265. DesignGirl said:
No, THANK YOU, Heather.
My father passed away yesterday, October 4. I'm sure I share your emotions right now. Today is the first time since last week I've logged on to catch up and thank you for making me smile at a time when all I really want to do is cry.
Like all good Catholics do, we will have a mass on Friday for dad. I'm gonna be a mess, I just know it.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
not-not-maria
266. Amy J said:
Your killing me Smalls. I DO NOT EVER cry (except for when my Grandmother died) and I feel as though I am mourning with you.
You are so welcome!!! I'm so happy your family could be all together.
267. beth aka confusedhomemaker said:
I was very sorry to read about your Granny's passing. My Nana passed away over 20 years ago & I still miss her, but I see her daily in my daughter.
268. Hope said:
This is what family is - and it doesn't have to be limited to shared DNA.
Please take the time with your family - we'll be here when you get back in print.
269. Lily Hydrangea said:
reading this makes me just want to click on all your ads over and over again.
we have had two deaths in our family in this last week, people not so close to me, but close to the ones I love, & the most important thing during these times is being with your loved ones & I am so glad your family is together. I am sure Granny is smiling seeing you all gather in her honor.
270. Anonymous said:
Hugs to you from Milwaukee, Wisconsin.
271. Amyinbc said:
Thank YOU Heather and so sorry to hear of your families great loss. How great it is you enabled family members to make the trip, that has to feel good.
272. Anonymous said:
Edina, Minnesota? Wonderful and random choice. Much love from Minnesota and thinking of you during this difficult time.
273. Monica said:
And I don't say it nearly enough... thank YOU, Heather, for sharing your life and your sense of humor. I tell people about your website every chance I get. Glad that so many of your family members could come together to share memories and stories of what sounds like a very well-loved Granny. I appreciate you and your blog so much!
274. Jackie in Edina said:
I think you were talking to me...in Edina! And you are very welcome. I adore you and your family and your stories. Your family is in my prayers...
275. mari emmons said:
So good that Leta is learning by example that getting the family together, crazy as they may be, is important, to celebrate all that life brings us. Good job Heather and good job Granny Boone!
276. Beth said:
So glad you get to be with all your family, crazy or not. I'm sure that makes your Granny incredibly happy :) That Marlo is THE CUTEST, although as a mom of two, that laugh sounded a little like maybe it was thisclose to turning into a cry ;)
277. Lindsey said:
Glad to help, Heather. I hope everything surrounding this time goes smoothly, and it sounds like with a family like yours it could end up being fun. Thinking of you often.
278. Jenny said:
We here in Edina, MN, are happy to help out. Thinking kind thoughts for your family.
279. Lynda said:
My pleasure and you are welcome...all the way from VANCOUVER!
THANK YOU, for writing so well and keeping us all connected on so many different levels.
Thinking of you this week. Enjoy your family. Funerals are sad occasions but at least people are brought together.
280. twoboysmama said:
OMG, that video was so friggen' cute it makes my ovaries ache, and I have a 14 month old so its not like it has been that long since he let out his first giggle and I swooned with the overwhelming sweetness of it all. you just never get used to baby giggles! she's gorgeous!
Glad we could help with the Granny Boone's fond farewell. Nothing in the world more important than family. My own fam's craziness could kick your fam's craziness in the ass any day of the week, but still there is nothing more important in the world than family.
Keep on rockin' dooce.
281. Eternally Distracted said:
Kind thoughts to you and your family from the Middle East ...
282. 1eyedmonkee said:
My pleasure Heather...no really - my absolute pleasure to have enjoyed Dooce over these last few months (spent the summer reading all the archives). May your family times together be as sweet as ours were just over a year ago when my dad died and my kids, nieces and nephews were able to raise a glass or two, laugh and cry and enjoy being family.
283. @kaseandannasmom said:
No, thank YOU for writing with true passion, wit, and honesty. Thank you for showing the world that "Mom" doesn't mean perfection, that "family" means love (which, in turn, means acceptance and tolerance), and that "blogging" means letting us in, completely. So sorry about Granny Boone.
284. Darleen said:
From North Pole, Alaska... it's our pleasure, since you bring us so much laughter.
285. CJ said:
xoxo to you, dooce lady, for helping me through the most difficult time in my life. my baby is now 8 months old, and you have been with me for most of this journey. the picture of your granny is awesome, i love her smile. i am sorry she is gone, and happy that your family gets to be together during this difficult time.
edina, minnesota? really? rock on!!
286. Anonymous said:
It's not my business what you do with your money, obviously, but I love that you used some this way. Excuse me while I click on some ads for you.
Safe travels, safe unraveling all this family stuff later, and your Granny is in my thoughts and prayers tonight too.
287. misstraceynolan said:
Thank YOU, Heather, for sharing yourself with us everyday. I hope someone steals a piece of apple pie from Uncle Timmy today, just to set him straight. We love you in Toronto.
288. keagansmom said:
Heather, so sorry for the loss of your beloved Grandma. Hugs.
xoxo right back atcha
I must digress for a moment, tho, because I am reading "Roadside Crosses" by Jeffrey Deaver, and Dooce is mentioned! In a work of fiction! Totally, totally rad. I was all "OMG I KNOW HER" (even though I really don't, ya know?)
289. Visible Voice said:
I'm so glad that you're family could be together...
And I love that southern accent! Especially when you say "SHINGLEEEEEEEES!" And of course when you imitate your Mom. (on Momversation)
www.visiblevoice.ca
290. Lilliah said:
Likewise, Mrs. Armstrong :)
Enjoy your time with everyone,
xoxo
291. Tristin said:
You deserve all of your success, beautiful lady! All of it. ox
292. AS said:
My step-father flew in most of my birth mother's children and grandchildren for her funeral in Louisiana, so I know how lucky your family is to have you. That was an awesome thing you did. My mother's funeral was more like a family reunion and there was so much laughter with the tears...which I think mom would have loved.
I laughed about Jon not understanding you, because once my feet hit Louisiana soil the southern drawl RETURNS LIKE THE TERMINATOR. hee hee Husband probably couldn't wait for me to return to CA soil and return to normal.
What a way to honor Granny Boone, Heather! Roots is the most important thing we could give our children, and you're doing a wonderful job doing just that with the two cuties!
Infinite X's & O's
293. glitterbug said:
much love to you and yours ♥ ♥ ♥
294. Hallie said:
Enjoy the company of your huge clan and give Granny a memorable sendoff. Big hugs.
295. Cathy Carey said:
You are so very welcome. I'm lucky enough to have most of my family within a 2 -3 drive.
It is quite rewarding to know that reading your very funny, delightful, interesting blog helped provide a way to get more of your family close.
And since I'm reading backwards - we've had quite a bit of adventure here as well - my sincere sympathy for the lose of your Granny Boon.
BTW the chuckles are delightful and a reminder that life does go on whether we're ready for it or not.
296. Victoria said:
Love to you all.
297. geowge said:
I love you too.
298. Margaret said:
And to think, even the haters helped fly out your cousins.
"God bless us, every one."
299. Aeshna said:
Hi Dooce!
I felt compelled to write you after reading this particular blog, because I want you to know that you have a huge fan in India as well! Yes, way over there. That better than No. 26 or what?
I've been following your blog for two years now.It's a slice of life from a world so unfamiliar to mine. I really look forward to reading it.
Lots of love to you and your wonderful family.
300. Audrey Bishop said:
Great to know we can help :)
and Marloooooooo!! Makes me want to grab a man and have a baby, seriously.