Why any woman who intends to vote for McCain should reconsider
Two of my favorite bloggers in the past couple of days have explained in succinct detail why we (women in particular) should be sickened by John McCain. I implore you to take the time to read these, they're not just a bunch of liberal propaganda or pro-choice cheerleading. These are stories of people's lives.
From Alexa at Flotsam:
McCain states that he would deal with the issue of abortion with “courage and compassion.” I quote: “the courage of a pregnant mother to bring her child into the world and the compassion of civil society to meet her needs and those of her newborn baby.” As if terminating my pregnancy would be the easy way out, the way not requiring his precious “courage.” As if dictating my medical care based upon his religious beliefs is compassionate. And I find it interesting to note that his “compassion” for this newborn does not extend to guaranteeing it health insurance.
And Julie from a little pregnant:
He means us when he holds up his hands and says with that single scornful gesture that we don't matter. That we are a figment of the "pro-abortion movement's" imagination. That — what, we're making this whole "staying pregnant might kill me" thing up?
... even if you're implacably, unconditionally opposed to abortion, a matter on which reasonable people disagree, I don't see any way a thinking person can look at those air quotes and see anything but pandering, contempt, and a dangerous willful ignorance.
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601. renee said:
with all respect to the intelligent women you have quoted here, these are not the most important arguments against mccain where abortion is concerned. one is not going to convince someone against abortion that it is okay; even if this is doable, it is, again, not the most important aspect of this issue.
all of us, pro-choice and pro-life alike, are interested in decreasing the number of abortions that happen in this country (and for the record, before i continue, i am pro-choice). i would bet my daughter's college fund that there will be fewer abortions under obama than there would be under mccain, whether or not roe vs. wade remains intact. the way to reduce abortions, like many things, is through education.
It bothers me so much that people think outlawing something will necessarily have the effect they want. People are people and if they want or need abortions they’ll get one. Law or no law.
This is all not to mention the health of the mothers that will surely be in jeopardy if abortions are not regulated, of course.
the best thing we can do for ourselves, for our daughters, and for theirs is to remove our emotion and opinions from the issue (easier said than done) and take a realisitc look at what can be done to provide women the environment that best supports good choices and to elect the person who will most likely foster that environment. right now, that is clearly barack obama.
602. A Beautiful Storm said:
*Yawn*
Heather, you used to be interesting. Vote for Obama - welcome to a socialist economy.
603. claire said:
Ok, I admit that I haven't read every one of the nearly 600 comments here, but I did read a lot of them, and a couple things pop out: none of the McCain/Palin supporters have explained why they're voting that way, unless it's based entirely on abortion. I'd like to believe political conversation amongst people who disagree is still possible, and I'd like to hear more than strident, repetitive, one-issue arguments about why anyone would vote M/P, because I just cannot figure it out.
And: for all the people who think women should just live with their mistakes, and need to take responsibility for their own choices before getting pregnant - how are we supposed to do that when sex education barely exists, and access to tools and techniques to make responsible choices is rapidly disappearing?
dooce - thanks for using your voice to reach so many. And thanks to everyone else who wrote thoughtful comments with useful information, and to everyone who is rightly outraged and ready to take action. Vote!
604. PJ said:
I was 18, a freshman in college and pregnant. What to do but have an abortion (he/she would be 26 years old now). Why demonize and pass judgment on people for who they vote for!? I'm complex and not a one issue woman. I'm a 44 year old divorced woman with one child, who volunteers at the "soup kitchen", does yoga, recycles, and who classifies herself as agnostic (god/goddess forbid, once I got my head out of my arse I actually took birth control to make sure I only had as many children as I could afford to raise). I work hard and have done well despite not having my college degree. What does my hard work ensure? A home I am paying for (and can afford), a paid-for car, food, clothing, and health insurance because I get off my lazy "I am victim/woman" butt and make sure I provide for me and my son (BTW, truly poor people get health insurance for their children and it's called Medicaid).
We have choices to make everyn day and I choose to take responsibility for my life and not wait on someone else (a man, the government, etc.) to make those choices. Times get tough and you raise a garden or get a second job. Based on some people's beliefs, at $60G a year I probably make more money than "they" think I need and my white son has more opportunities than he deserves. Who am I voting for? John McCain.
I want the government out of my pocketbook and you want government out of your/women's uterus. Do you see the similarities? Do you boil people down to one issue they don't agree with you on? Aren't we all complex, multi-faceted women who, based on our life experiences, live the best way we know how? So, Heather, how does my voting for McCain make me a sub-human, ignorant, "they know not what they do", child needing your guidance? I thoroughly enjoy (many times LOL) what you have to say about the conflicts of parenting and being a partner in a relationship but, please get over the fact that not every woman agrees with your pick for president and we are not stupid. You know what my mantra is: Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
605. Michele said:
I've read many of the comments, starting at #1, and continuing on until I couldn't take it anymore.
I'm quite embarrassed at the lack of civility amongst the previous commenters.
I am pro-choice. I am a feminist. I believe that my body is my own. I will share it with whom I choose. I've never been in the situation where I have had to choose whether or not to have an abortion, and I hope that I never have to.
My family is pro-life through and through. We have had many conversations about this issue. I still love my family...completely.
I can NEVER imagine being as cruel to my parents as many of these commenters have been to one another and to Heather.
Regardless of your stance on this issue, we are all human, and deserve respect. There are differences of opinion on all matters, and I would HOPE that educational debate would be used, as opposed to name calling, hateful remarks and hurtful rhetoric. What is right for you may not be right fo the person sitting next to you...that does not make them an idiot.
I have a 2 year old daughter, and I would never introduce her to many of the people that have commented on this site. Your lanquage and mean-sprited comments show me that you would not be worried about the feelings of others, and definatly not be an appropriate role model for my daughter.
Maybe, we should focus a little bit on monitoring ourselves, role modeling appropriate behavior, and attempting to erase hate from our society, as opposed to worrying about the behavior and choices of others.
I'm sad and disappointed...not at the difference of opinion, but at the nasty way that many people have voiced their differences.
606. Talon said:
Oh Goodness Ivan, you sure showed me!!
Now show me where I said the embryo, fetus, zygote, clump of cells isn't alive.
Where did I say that?
That's right. I didn't. So long as that life relies on the woman for its continued existence it has exactly as much right as the person carrying the pregnancy. Life may begin at conception...hell, it begins before!! Did you think that two dead cells combined to magically form life?? The egg and sperm are both alive. But no one cries murder when women regularly shed their unfertilized eggs with their uterine lining monthly, or holds little funeral services for men's ejaculate collected in tissues.
Sure, life begins at conception. But PREGNANCY doesn't even begin at conception. A woman can have a fertilized egg hanging around inside her, but until/if it implants, she isn't pregnant. Roughly fifty percent of all zygotes fail to implant and are flushed out with the woman's normal menses.
I laugh when people tell me that "abortionists" are killing millions of babies each year. It's bullshit. I know what a dead baby looks like. I held mine in my arms, and I buried him. I don't really care for the pro-lifer's attempts to trivialize my son's death for me. I repeat. Babies are born. Until that time, or until the time when they are able to sustain their life outside the mother's uterus, the fetus has exactly as much rights as the mother chooses to give it. After viability, the state steps in and gives the fetus more rights. What more do you want?
If someone needed my blood, my blood and no one else's and I refused to give it to them, and they died, did I kill them? Sure. But that is my right. My body. My choice. If I want to carry a child I conceive, that is my right. No one can force me to abort. And conversely, if I wish to end a pregnancy for WHATEVER REASON, I can, and will. Potential life does not trump already living and breathing life. Sorry.
607. Melissia said:
I am a pro-choice female but it took a lot of soul searching to get me there. The pro-choice movement frames the right to an abortion in a way that I feel is deeply disrespectful to women, mothers, and children. However, I decided that I have to trust that the small amount of women who have to make the agonizing decision to abort a pregnancy do so morally. It is not for me a decision about who has more right to life, mother or fetus, but a million other questions including quality of life and the capacity of a woman to care for a child.
I am seriously beginning to feel that so many issues in politics are dog and pony shows to keep the American people divided and not focusing on what politicians are really doing. It is not that the 3% of American women who will get an abortion or the many gay people who would like to marry ( I am pro gay marriage by the way but neither of the candidates are) do not matter. It is that while we are focusing on these issues decisions that affect the rights of all Americans are being made.
I feel that Obama and Mcain are not that different from one another and both have lied and smeared in this campaign and you don't have to believe me, just go out to factcheck.org and see for yourself. I do not believe leadership involves misleading, lying, or voting certain ways because one of your special interest groups asks you to. I am going to waste my vote this election and vote third party because I am tired of voting for people I do not trust and do not respect.
Melissia
608. DeppFan said:
When Couric asked Palin if a pregnant 15 year-old girl, RAPED by her FATHER, should have to continue the pregnancy, and Palin said yes, I WAS DONE with these losers.
VOTE OBAMA / BIDEN.
609. DeppFan said:
From what I've read, even if Roe v. Wade is overturned, each state can make its own laws on abortion.
That will definitely increase tourism to blue states.
But the right to choose will not completely go away if Roe v. Wade is overturned.
Oh, and thank god I don't live in a red state.
I wouldn't last a minute.
610. Katie said:
I just need to say that I am appalled at everyone who believes that pro-choice means pro-abortion. I am pro-choice. I do not believe I would ever have an abortion, but I am pro-choice. If my little sister were raped as a teenager, or actually ever, I believe she should be able to choose to not have that baby. This is especially true for young rape victims...can you imagine all the stress their little bodies would go through at the age of 12 or so if they had to give birth? Sickening.
My father, an extremely conservative man, told me that he is pro-life and really respects Sarah Palin for "choosing to have her child, even though he is disabled." I turned right around and told him the main point of that statement... she CHOSE to keep the child. And that's the way it should be. Choices based on what's best for all involved.
611. tedders said:
Oh good Lord, the ignorance being shown here! One that tops most of them is #412 Gooddog said:
"And then there are the Dooce readers screaming Ugh, Socialism. What has capitalism as practiced in this country done for you? Paid your medical insurance? Sent your kids to college? Put money in your bank accounts and provided you with a pension? The rich have gotten richer and the poor, poorer and there are so many more of them. Without regulation, capitalism is injust and brutal."
Why don't you move to Venezuela or Cuba if you think so much of socialism you moron.
1-What has capitalism as practiced in this country done for you? Paid your medical insurance?
Yes and the house to sleep in, vacations to escape to, enough to give to the church and other worthy cause of MY choice ...
2-Put money in your bank accounts and provided you with a pension?
Yes and bought that lake property, putting money in 529 college funds and that cool '68 gold top Les Paul I always wanted.
The rich have gotten richer and the poor have gotten richer, We have the highest standard of living in the entire frigging world Gooddog. More TV's and cars percapita than anywhere. If you would get off your ass and participate in the best economy in the world instead of watchinf spongebobsquarepants all day maybe you would have a pot to piss in. You should probably read some of Thomas Jefferson's thoughts, “I find that the harder I work, the more luck I seem to have”.
Here's the only reason to vote for Obama: "A government policy to rob Peter to pay Paul can be assured of the support of Paul."
George Bernard Shaw
Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery.
Winston Churchill
The recurrence of periods of depression and mass unemployment has discredited capitalism in the opinion of injudicious people. Yet these events are not the outcome of the operation of the free market. They are on the contrary the result of well-intentioned but ill-advised government interference with the market.
Ludwig von Mises,
“The goal of socialism is communism.”
Vladimir Lenin
Democracy extends the sphere of individual freedom; socialism restricts it. Democracy attaches all possible value to each man; socialism makes each man a mere agent, a mere number. Democracy and socialism have nothing in common but one word: equality. But notice the difference: while democracy seeks equality in liberty, socialism seeks equality in restraint and servitude.
Alexis de Tocqueville
“Socialism values equality more than liberty but delivers neither.”
Dennis Prager
To take from one, because it is thought that his own industry and that of his fathers has acquired too much, in order to spare others, who, or whose fathers have not exercised equal industry and skill, is to violate arbitrarily the first principle of association, 'the guarantee to every one of a free exercise of his industry, and the fruits acquired by it.'
Thomas Jefferson
“Socialism is like a dream. Sooner or later you wake up to reality.”
Winston Churchill
“Socialism can only arrive by bicycle.”
Jose Antonio Viera Gallo
“The function of socialism is to raise suffering to a higher level.”
Norman Mailer
“Socialism in general has a record of failure so blatant that only an intellectual could ignore or evade it”
Thomas Sowell
Under communist rule in the Soviet Union, the 3 percent of agricultural land that was privately farmed by people who kept part of the profits from their efforts supplied the majority of all farm produce. It is not simply that bureaucracy is inefficient. Any form of production that is not based on material reward will not operate efficiently.
Steven E Plaut
“Socialism is the same as Communism, only better English”
George Bernard Shaw
“The Berlin Wall is the defining achievement of socialism”
George F. Will
Socialism is the philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance and the gospel of envy.
Winston Churchill
How do you tell a Communist? Well, it's someone who reads Marx and Lenin. And how do you tell an Anti-communist? It's someone who understands Marx and Lenin.
Ronald Reagan
Collectivism doesn't work because it's based on a faulty economic premise. There is no such thing as a person's 'fair share' of wealth. The gross national product is not a pizza that must be carefully divided because if I get too many slices, you have to eat the box. The economy is expandable and, in any practical sense, limitless. -- P.J. O'Rourke
Socialism is the doctrine that man has no right to exist for his own sake, that his life and his work do not belong to him, but belong to society, that the only justification of his existence is his service to society, and that society may dispose of him in any way it pleases for the sake of whatever it deems to be its own tribal, collective good.
Ayn Rand
Government cannot make man richer, but it can make him poorer.
Ludwig von Mises
"You can't get rid of poverty by giving people money."
P. J. O'Rourke
A liberal is someone who feels a great debt to his fellow man, which debt he proposes to pay off with your money."
G. Gordon Liddy
"Of all tyrannies, a tyranny exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience."
C.S. Lewis
"The most fundamental fact about the ideas of the political left is that they do not work. Therefore we should not be surprised to find the left concentrated in institutions where ideas do not have to work in order to survive."
Thomas Sowell
"You cannot bring prosperity by discouraging thrift.
You cannot help small men by tearing down big men.
You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong.
You cannot lift the wage earner by pulling down the wage payer.
You cannot help the poor man by destroying the rich.
You cannot keep out of trouble by spending more than your income.
You cannot further brotherhood of men by inciting class hatred.
You cannot establish security on borrowed money.
You cannot build character and courage by taking away man's initiative and independence.
You cannot help men permanently by doing for them what they could and should do for themselves."
Rev. William J. H. Boetcker
612. BlueLikeTheSky said:
Honestly? Our day-to-day lives are affected more than any of us realize my eight men and one woman in long black robes. In the BIG PICTURE, few things matter more in this election than voting for someone who will choose Justices who guard our civil rights.
Funny how McPalin lovers are against big government, unless it's the kind that controls our bodies and our minds.
For my take on a conversation I overheard on this issue: www.therandomblue.blogspot.com/2008/09/50-hate-tennis-ladies.html
613. Ivan said:
Talon, you're changing the argument.
An egg or sperm, surely with living cells as you state, die. A fertilized egg does not.
You can have various views on abortion, but I find your rationale for pro-choice odd. A fetus has ONLY the rights YOU choose to give it? It's all about YOU YOU YOU. That's kinda totalitarian, no?
There are alot of people who believe that fetus is a human life (not a potential one, a real one), and a defenseless one at that. You may not believe it's worthy of protection and only worthy of whatever "rights" YOU give it, but that doesn't make you correct. Since you speak so forcefully of "rights," please tell me where in the Constitution is says you have the "right" to an abortion? Roe is based on a Constitutional "right to privacy," but that ain't in there either. I'm not sure on what moral basis you say you have the "right" to abort other than you think a fetus is a parasite. By the way, what makes one woman's fetus a "parasite" and another's a "baby?" Is it the intent of the mother to carry it to full term? Women who have miscarriages mourn the loss of a "baby," not a "fetus." Regardless of the nomenclature, don't both fetuses have the same RIGHT to a chance at life, liberty and happiness? That, my angry friend, IS in the Constitution.
I'm very sorry at the loss of your child. I'm not really sure what it has to do with this debate other than to make an emotional appeal.
614. Cindy said:
It's all so very dramatic, almost to the point of being boring. I love your blog by the way...most of the time.;0)
615. Someone said:
605:
Oh, is your two-year-old reading Dooce's blog? Wow! Impressive.
*snort*
616. Ivan said:
#603 Claire,
I have several reasons to vote FOR McCain and even more to vote AGAINST Obama.
I've been pro-choice most of my life, but that's changed as I've aged. I'm not ready to overturn Roe just yet, but I'm leaning that way. Obama's positions on partial-birth abortion and denying medical care to infants who survive abortion attempts are just two reasons to vote against him.
Perhaps McCain supporters are this thread are not detailing other reasons to vote GOP because this thread is about, oh I don't know, ABORTION?
Why hijack this thread over defense issues, tax and monetary policy, trade policy, weath redistribution, healthcare, personal judgement, character issues, a proclivity for lying and a million other reasons to vote against The One Who Will Save The World?
It's about a mythical Constitutional right for a woman to "choose," which we all know is a litmus test for liberal women everywhere in identifying viable candidates and "authentic" women.
617. Anonymous said:
Hey you have probably already seen this, then, but I think this young woman says it even better.
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2008/10/15/233023/97/640/631928
618. Slonicy said:
I've always been one of those male lurkers. So I have never told you...you rock...And I ♥ you.
619. Rachel said:
Hi Heather - I just wanted to continue to encourage you in the next few weeks to ask people to reconsider voting for McCain. You do have influence and a great opportunity to make people think who otherwise might not. Pretty much everyone who reads my blog agrees with me, so I'm mostly just preaching to the choir - but you have a mixed readership so I'm grateful that you are doing what you can to help get Obama elected and encourage a better future for our kids.
Thank you.
www.naptimepolitico.com
620. Anonymous said:
An egg or sperm, surely with living cells as you state, die. A fertilized egg does not.
Oh good god. Have you not heard of the pill or miscarriage? It happens all the time. Shut the fuck up.
621. Ivan said:
620...STFU? Is that what qualifies as debate in your circles? Or, as someone stated earlier, are you melting down because someone has challenged your hardcore ideological beliefs?
I was oversimplifying for the masses, most of which, like you, need things simplified. Are you really equating birth control pills and miscarriages with the willful destruction of a fetus? Perhaps you should adjust your moral compass.
You can beat your chest and shout profanities as long as the day is long...it won't shut me up. I'm not afraid of the liberal fascists rising up in America these days. :)
622. Ivan said:
Anonymous, are you the same one that linked to Kos in #617? If so, I now understand where you get your rhetorical skills. If you're a daily reader, "Shut the fuck up" is about the mildest thing you could've taken away from that cesspool of a blog. Ironically, it also seems to be the first response a typical lefty has to any argument with which he or she disagrees.
623. Mary Dawn said:
i'm not as articulate as your friends, that's why i read you...i agree wholeheartedly that this issue might be one of the most important on which to base your vote, especially as a woman...you cannot govern my uterus
624. What about the baby's rights? said:
Heather,
I'm done. I've tried to stick with you through your political rants but no more. You insult millions of women who have views different than yours. You want me to feel ashamed of voting for McCain and stupid for supporting Palin. Well, I feel neither.
Life begins at conception. This is science. And indisputable. You feel empathy for those mothers. Well who feels empathy for the babies? That's what they are, Heather - babies. They have a heartbeat and unique DNA and if given the chance to live inside their mother's womb for 9 months a fully formed human baby will come into this world. An abortion kills a unique individual conceived in his mother's womb. It's is always and in every case wrong.
God help us.
625. jen77064 said:
You implore us to read about this information from two blogs, so that we can be sickened like you are about McCain? I enjoy blogs for the entertainment value and for different perspectives, not because I believe they are accurate or trustworthy on any topic that is newsworthy. Stay off the politics, especially when your source is a blog.
626. Anonymous said:
#619 - you are living in la la land if you think that any of the screaming fanatical loonatics that read this blog are going to change anybody's mind on who they vote for - some of you bloggers give yourself too much credit.
627. Slonicy said:
lmao at all you "I'm done with you dooce"
Most of you will crawl back to see what Dooce has to say (mostly because you will really miss her) and will hate yourself for it, but you will not be able to resist.
Why?...Resistance is futile.
628. Jenny R said:
Thought this was interesting
How Racism works...
What if Michelle Obama walked 5 kids including a pregnant 17 year old on
stage? Would racism change the perception?
What if a video surfaced of Michelle Obama being cleansed of witch craft by
a black preacher?
What if John McCain were a former president of the Harvard Law Review?
What if Barack Obama finished fifth from the bottom of his graduating class?
What if McCain were still married to the first woman he said 'I do' to?
What if Obama were the candidate who left his first wife at the age of 42
(for a 22 year old heiress) after she no longer measured up to his
standards?
What if Michelle Obama were a wife who not only became addicted to pain
killers, but acquired them illegally through her charitable organization?
What if Cindy McCain graduated from Harvard?
What if Obama were a member of the 'Keating 5'?
What if McCain was a charismatic, eloquent speaker?
If these questions reflected reality, do you really believe the election
numbers would be as close as they are?
This is what racism does. It covers up, rationalizes and minimizes positive
qualities in one candidate and emphasizes negative qualities in another when
there is a color difference.
629. Anonymous said:
I am a single mom of a special-needs kid. (I mention this because some McCain supporters think that I should now feel an intimate connection with Palin. Not so much.) The thing is, now that I had my son, I can't imagine having chosen to give him up. But if I hadn't been a month away from graduating college and engaged (I later broke up with him because he was abusive), my choice may have been different. And I think part of what made choosing to continue the pregnancy easier was knowing that it was MY choice.
Now if the government says I'm not allowed to choose whether or not to continue my pregnancy, then where does it end? Will they start dictating how I act when I'm pregnant along with what I'm allowed to ingest or engage in? Then they start dictating who should be allowed to parent and who shouldn't. The Right already says homosexuals shouldn't be parents. So why not single moms? Or poor people?
And what happens if the Right gets it's way and the thousands of babies who are aborted each week are suddenly born? (Clearly this will not happen; I am being hypothetical for the sake of argument.) Who takes care of these children? Some of them will be taken care of by their parents. Some will be put up for adoption. And when they aren't all adopted or they are abandoned or neglected, who pays for foster care and how? And for those who would have chosen abortion for economic reasons comes the cost of food stamps, WIC programs, headstart child care, medicaid, child support recovery, and FIP/Welfare. All of the things the Right hates because the government shouldn't pay for pregnancies. Have they ever considered what happens next? Kind of like going to war without an exit strategy, a legitimate reason, or a way to rebuild the country we invaded.....
And the whole rape/incest thing. I think that pisses me off the most. Imagine every time you fill out a piece of information about yourself or your child and having to look at the spot where it says "father" knowing the name that belongs there is the name of a monster. It's hard enough with my son's father. CAN YOU IMAGINE? A baby?? The daily care of a BABY who cries and poops and costs lots of money and interrupts your life every hour of every day day and it's the result of rape???? To not only have memories but a constant physical reminder that you aren't allowed to hate? That you have to sacrifice for????
Of course the argument is to have the baby adopted instead. I still have to put my life on hold for NINE MONTHS while my belly swells and people ask me about baby names and due dates and daddies.
I think Obama nailed it when he said that he knows we can't all agree on the abortion issue, but we can agree that we want to decrease the number of unwanted pregnancies. And let me tell you, the Right does a crappy job of educating it's youth. They can preach abstinence all they want; their kids are still going to do whatever they CHOOSE to do. Just like me, the daughter of two conservatives. And because I wasn't properly educated -- just told to stay away -- I wound up a single mom that the government gets to support.
630. Grace said:
"As if dictating my medical care based upon his religious beliefs is compassionate."
I always wonder why Liberals always compare "MY" medical care (or "MY" body) to the idea that life begins at conception as a religious belief. Many people who are not religious still believe that life begins at conception. Do not confuse the two, and then you will actually have a real statement there.
I used to read Dooce every single day. Hell, I even check it at least 3 times a day, even on the weekends, because I loved it. I have been reading since day one.
Now I am sickened by the fact that I have to read this garbage on your website, and at the same time helping you to build ad revenue to help support a Socialist.
Consider this my last visit, though you may not even care. It was very, very fun while it lasted.
631. Talon said:
Actually, when I miscarried in 1998, I mourned the loss of a pregnancy. There was no baby in the picture. Or the ultrasound for that matter.
And yes. So far as my body is concerned, all that matters is ME. Period. MY intent gives the fetus the rights I choose. Period. Other women choose differently, but they can't force their beliefs on others. They TRY to, but ultimately, we will tell them to stuff it.
My point, in the end is this: abortion, like it or not is a medical procedure. It has been around long before it was legislated. And it will continue to be around no matter how many woman or men will insist it is their divine right to "speak for the unborn." They can speak for their own unborn...but they can't speak for mine. They can choose to NOT have an abortion. They can choose to believe whatever they wish about what constitutes life, but in the end, the abortion issue ends up being a bodily integrity issue. You CANNOT compromise the right to bodily integrity. If you say that a woman must carry a pregnancy to term and give birth, then it is not such a slippery slope to begin telling people that they must give blood, or they must donate bone marrow, or they must donate sperm, or they must give up part of their intestines...it all sounds ludicrous...because it IS. Women MUST have the right to choose. Some will choose to carry, some will choose to carry and adopt out, some will choose to keep it, some will choose to abort...for whatever their reasons are, they MUST be free to choose what happens to THEIR bodies.
THEIR rights, wishes, decisions, and ultimately their choices supersede whatever rights the fetus may have before viability. As I said, after viability, the state gives the fetus limited rights, and abortion at that time is so strictly regulated as to be a non-issue.
I don't tell pregnant women who say they're expecting a baby that they're wrong, and I don't tell women who have suffered a miscarriage that they didn't suffer a loss. I have a good deal of experience in grief counseling. But I also don't tell women who choose to keep their pregnancies that they are wrong, and I don't tell women who choose to abort that it is sunshine and daises. I don't tell woman who choose to give their baby up that they should have aborted, or they should keep the baby. By being pro-choice, it means I respect the woman, I respect her decisions, and I respect her right to make those choices without MY interference.
Period.
If you don't agree with abortion, don't have one. Most major religions are big on personal accountability. So if the reason is religious, it's still none of your (general population) business.
632. Talon said:
By the way...all these pro-lifers saying that "exceptions should be made for victims of rape or incest" I have no respect for. Of course, I'm sure that breaks their hearts.
The fetus is the same. Either you are about saving the "babies" or you are about punishing the woman for daring to have sex.
You can't have it both ways. No matter how the fetus got there, it's the same.
Sorry to burst your bubbles folks...
633. Ivan said:
628...you're right, that is how racism works. I had to read your post twice because I wasn't sure what you said. I still don't think you said what you THINK you said. Obama is in this race because he's black. If he was another run of the mill white guy with a radical background (like Ayers), he'd be sitting at home watching Hillary and McCain debate the issues on TV. 95% of black Americans voting for Obama...THAT'S racism. Plain and simple.
629. Your statements reek of Eugenics. Talk about racism...wow. Advocating abortions for poor people since they can't take care of the babies? Classism, racism, all in one post. Scary. To think of the Supreme Court Justices YOU'D nominate. Chilling.
Talon, we'll agree to disagree. For the record, I've never tried to have it both ways. I agree that babies conceived through rape or incest are every bit as innocent as planned babies. People feel better about abortion in those cases because they rationalize that the baby would be hated or despised by the mother or some other reason like that. In those cases, some people seem to think the sensibilities of the mother outweight the right of the baby to pursue life, liberty and happiness. I don't. Your slippery slope arguments are simple fallacies. People say the same thing about gay marriage...legalizing gay marriage will lead to legalizing bestiality, incest, yada yada yada. Proponents of gay marriage laugh at that, and I laugh at your straw men.
I simply disagree with you that the rights of the baby start and end at you and your uterus. Being a man, I can't have an abortion but that doesn't mean I can't have my views (or my vote) regardless of what the more radical among you say.
634. KT said:
The other day I had a conversation with my friend who told me she is voting for McCain SOLELY because of his view on abortion. She DOESN'T even AGREE with him on issues that would matter to her family, one being that her children are on state assisted health care and she's not even covered! Anyway, I was so irritated for the rest of the day that she would take ONE issue that probably will NEVER change to decide her vote. I spent the rest of the day reading up on Roe v. Wade to learn if ANY republican pres. has ever done anything to reverse it. Anyway, that's not the point.
I have to admit that I was very anti-abortion, and until I read those blogs I didn't know how 100% ignorant I was. Those stories were heart wrenching and I can't imagine having to make that choice. Thank you for helping to open up my eyes on the issue and give me something else to think about and learn.
Also, have you ever read the book, What's The Matter With Kansas? If not, I think you'd like it. It's basically about how the conservatives have managed to "punk" the US to get people to vote Republican even if that means voting against their own economic interests based soley on morals. It's interesting, and frightenly true.
635. tedders said:
Eloquent and lucid Ivan #629
sorry 'bout the double post.
636. tedders said:
Ivan #633 was Ivan #629 when I posted tedders # 635!
Eloquent and lucid Ivan #629
sorry 'bout the double post.
637. Catherine said:
You know, it always annoys me when bloggers DON'T mention politics. Are they not paying attention, do they not have opinions? Are they worried their opinions are going to piss people off? I don't know, but it just seems so *fake* if they can't ever bring up what's going on in the world around them.
I know you get a lot of crap like "just be funny, don't get political" and "I don't come here to read your political opinions", but screw those people. If they find the rest of your life enjoyable enough to read about every few days, then they should also have to deal with the fact that you are an actual human being, with actual *opinions* about various subjects.
Because you do talk politics, I have that much more respect for you.
638. Anonymous said:
Only pointing out how absolutely stupid your comment was, Ivan. Ramble on and look like an idiot, if you wish. I bet you're sitting there scratching your balls and sniffing the dick cheese beneath your nails, you're that bored.
And quite obviously I hit a nerve, didn't I? My moral compass was tossed two pages back when narrow-minded dolts like yourself tried to challenge an issue that wasn't even the center of this discussion to begin with just to read yourself on a popular blog.
"People feel better about abortion in those cases because they rationalize that the baby would be hated or despised by the mother or some other reason like that."
There's another doozie from you. I do love quoting your stupidity. It makes me smile. Give us more!
And, no, 617 wasn't me. What else ya got?
639. Ivan said:
Are you serious? Do you read the things you post? Everyone....THIS is what passes for intelligent commentary on the left. Dick cheese.
This is classic lefty behavior that we are witnessing throughout the country during this election cycle. People like, ahem, ANONYMOUS, don't like what you have to say so they resort to vile, profanity laced attacks in an attempt to shout you down. Naturally, it's all done as part of a mob or a single anonymous voice. If nobody can ID you, you can't get the crap kicked out of you for being a jackass in public.
Also note how this person calls others "narrow-minded," despite completely discounting and ridiculing any and all competing views. Nothing to counter or convince, just name calling and hatred. Talk about narrow minded. When somebody tells you they are "broadminded," or a "freethinker," that's usually the first sign are they are anything but.
Anonymous, please keep talking. It's tools like you that will eventually bury the left in America by exposing it for the hate filled, intolerant crowd they are.
640. Talon said:
Ivan...tell me one thing. How does legalizing gay marriage compromise a person's bodily integrity? It doesn't. Gay marriage and gay rights are a civil rights issue. Abortion is a bodily integrity issue. You cannot even force the worst felon on death row to give blood to save an innocent child.
The two aren't even remotely comparable.
My arguments aren't ridiculous because once you say a woman must donate the use of her uterus no matter what she wishes, that sets a precedent for demanding the use of other body parts, regardless of the wishes of the person to whom the body belongs.
I won't tell you that your views on abortion are wrong, because they are your views. But your view on bodily integrity and the danger it would be in if abortion were made illegal IS.
641. Andrea said:
Seriously? If you are basing your vote solely on the abortion issue then WAKE UP!! Don't you think there are more important issue's?
642. Sue said:
Dooce,
Feel free to share a little serious with your funny. Intelligent adults can take it.
And you're absolutely right, your civil rights are more important than comedy and it's your damn blog, say what you want!
As a Canadian, I watch this election with tremendous intrepidation and can only hope that enough people vote for the only sane choice- OBAMA/BIDEN.
As for the idiot palin, only in America would such nonsense be given any credence at all.
643. Kathryn said:
Feel sorry for me-I'm in AZ! I can't believe that we are still going red, even though anyone who has dealt with McCain can't stand the man! At least my whole family* (in laws included) are voting Obama.
*except my brother who still thinks Ron Paul is god on earth-don't ask, I think my Dad may have drop kicked him one time too many.
644. Medical Doctor said:
As a doctor I must say to all the pro-lifers, please check your facts about life and pregnancy! One CANNOT mount an argument based in religion against science. Have your faith all you want and need. Just keep it the hell away from my obs/gyn practice.
OBAMA/BIDEN 2008
645. the niffer said:
#90 - Laura, very well said.
I encourage everyone to go back and read this comment.
646. Anonymous said:
Oohhhh #620, I think you offended Ivan's delicate sensibilities. STFU indeed! =]
647. Katie said:
I'm for Obama - but I disagree with these statements. Because I'm pro-life. What makes me disagree with this is because being pro-life isn't necessarily about religion. It's about when you believe life begins and whether you believe that baby has rights, too.
I do believe in exceptions for the usual - rape, incest, life of the mother, yadda yadda... but anyone can cry rape. Trying to man that situation is a logistical nightmare and people who want abortions will get them - legally or otherwise. Wrong or right.
I think there are a lot more reasons for women, and men, to vote for Obama than this.. a lot of reasons that cross party and gender lines. And I think that with all the problems going on in our country right now, abortion should NOT be on the top of anyone's list when deciding who should be president.
648. Katie said:
Oh and as far as 632 goes - I completely disagree. The emotional and mental trauma a woman has to go through in the aftermath of being assaulted (by a family member or otherwise) IS part of their health. Carrying that child does jeopardize their health. With that being said, if I got raped, I'd be dang sure I went to a clinic and got one of those pills to prevent pregnancy from occurring.
649. Ivan said:
Please 646, gimme a break. Don't give yourself that much credit. I'm a fighter pilot. I've heard (and seen) things that would make Blackbeard blush.
Liberals define delicacy. I don't serve with any...they won't fight for anything so they tend not to show up where people actually might get hurt. The only time people like you are tough is when they hide behind mobs, keyboards, and lawyers. I'm almost drunk enough right now to tell you to shut the fuck up, but I like to be respectful to women and effeminate men. I can't tell which you are, but it's pretty much one and the same where liberals are concerned.
650. Anonymous said:
i am just shocked that anyone that HAS children would even be okay with abortion! Getting pregnant is not an ACCIDENT! you chose to have sex, so you are choosing to possibly get pregnant! *gasp* DEAL with your consequences or let someone who can not have kids adopt the baby! If one has been raped, i am sorry and i understand that it would be very hard to birth that child, but its not the babies fault. Adoption is a better choice than abortion! If you are pregnant and are having complications, get a second or third opinion and.. pray! Trust in God!
651. Anonymous said:
650, You have obviously never been raped. Dealing with my rape was hard enough without having a daily, moving, vomit-inducing reminder of that torturous experience for 9 months, made more difficult only by the trauma of giving birth to that child. That is something I would never wish on anyone, and had you experienced the same, you wouldn't either.
652. Caitlin said:
Ivan, my husband, a registered Democrat who will be voting for Obama, is a Second Lieutenant in the Air Force. My uncle, a registered Democrat, also voting for Obama, served in the Vietnam War. My husband's grandfather, you guessed it, a registered Democrat, voting for Obama, served in both World War II and Korea. Shame on you for generalizing.
653. Anonymous said:
Re: Alexa at Flotsam: Yes it takes courage to terminate a pregnancy.It takes a lot of courage to go against the grain of conscience which will never lie about abortion being wrong.It takes courage to live with inner condemnation, to shut the door to one's inner voice and create silence in the place where the truth can be heard.It is a known psychological,experiential,human fact that we can lie to ourselves and that we can close such doors,even if ultimately that lie within will not rest quiet though dormant a whole lifetime perhaps.It is a known fact that human beings do such things and justify to themselves and others such things. One only has to know themself to know this to true.
654. Michele said:
615-
No, my 2 year old does not read this blog. Clearly, you chose one part of my post to jump on to attack. The entire point that I attempted to make was to as: why would you say something to someone else, just to hurt them? I guess your response proved my point.
Maybe, I should let my 2 year old respond...she has been taught that it is not nice to hurt people or their feelings.
Best of luck to you.
655. Kristina said:
And......yet....here's why Obama is EQUALLY as extreme and why someone should think of the other side. How about "Abortion will kill me?"
http://bornalivetruth.org/
Seriously folks? Is it that hard to understand why people stand against abortion?
656. Ivan said:
652.
I said "liberals," not "Democrats."
2nd Lt's don't know shit.
Your uncle and husband's grandfather may be Democrats, but I don't think they're "liberals" as far as today's terms go. JFK, FDR, and Andrew Jackson were Democrats, and I'm pretty sure THOSE are the kind of Democrats your Uncle and husband's G'father voted for. Hell, Bill Clinton wasn't even a "liberal" by today's standards.
It's pathetic that people are voting for Obama because they were raised Democrats, or their fathers or Grandfathers were Democrats. Yesterday's Democrats are nothing like the Obama-ites. Four years of the Obama administration will clearly demonstrate to the Democrat faithful that they were sold a bill o' goods. JKF and FDR would be ostracized by the Dems of today...kinda like Bill C was thrown under the bus.
Shame on you for not realizing what Obama and 8 years of Bush Derangement Syndrome has done to the Democratic Party.
By the way, good luck to you and your husband. I was active duty for 10 years and full time Air National Guard for the last 4. I love the Air Force, and it's a great way of life. Obama won't be great for the Air Force budget and that will consequently directly affect your way of life, but good luck all the same! McCain is no fan of the USAF, either.
657. Diana said:
Heather,
I just want you to know that I absolutely agree with everything you say and I am glad that you are giving us your view because it makes me like you even more.
I wonder if the religious right know that the only reason the "church" is against abortion is because then you aren't making anymore future church members that they can then get their tithing from?
Look at the history of any church, whatever religion, and you will find that is the reason.
I've heard this before: If men could get pregnant, you could buy abortions at the grocery store!
And Heather, I will click on you way more times a day, so you will continue to get whatever you would get from the prolifers who say they are leaving!!
Rock on sista!!
658. Sandy said:
It never ceases to amaze me that so many people think it is a woman's right to end her baby's life.
All the arguments about why the baby isn't really a baby would be amusing if so many babies weren't losing their lives daily.
I am a woman and I am definitely pro-life. Wow, that is just so frightening, huh?
659. Anonymous said:
Unless John McCain kills someone live on television, I cannot vote for Obama. Nothing else is a deal breaker compared with the ultra liberal agenda and shameful record of poor judgement by Obama. Nothing.
660. Anonymous said:
Anyone who has ever purchased a condom knows when life begins.
661. Bev said:
When I was pregnant (29 years ago) my doctor (and my ex-husband) encouraged me quite often to abort my fetus.
Why because I had a very difficult pregnancy. If was very inconvenient for me (and the ex!) to spend almost everyday in bed...in the hospital twice and sick everyday. My baby sister has cerebral palsy (a birth defect and not inherited) and that was a nervous consideration.
I decide to follow my heart, instinct as a mother and convictions. I went through with my pregnancy.
Eight months later my son was born. Since he was early, his fetal breathing system did not shut down and was in NICU. We traded a very small savings account for a child (via paying doctor and hospital bills.) It just made us want to try hard to provide for him and excel as a family.
About two weeks later, I took home a very healthy, bright, smart and thriving baby boy. He was on the honor roll as a child and recently made the President's List in college. My point...nothing was wrong with him.
Today he is 28 years old, married and leading a full, productive life with hope, dreams and aspirations. How may babies time was cut short because of inconvenience?
It's a really good thing I did what I did. Later, after being a two time non-smoking lung cancer survivor and developing autoimmune disorders I lost my ability to bear children in my early 30's. He was my only child. Had I aborted him, I would have been childless today.
Heather, I love you blog. I just don't vote on one issue...my life and experience has taught me better.
662. tedders said:
Who the liberal media tells you the US military supports:
http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=navclient&aq=t&ie=UTF-8&rls=GGIC,G...
Who the US military supports:
http://www.militarytimes.com/static/projects/pages/081003_ep_2pp.pdf
You lemmings believe anything the NYT or ABC says. Joseph Goebbels would be so proud of you!!
663. Pixie Dust said:
Heather, thank you for reminding me why I'll be voting for John McCain.
Wayne #396 - Dooce's been losing her edge for quite a while now, Alexa and other ranks plummeting steadily for the last 2 years. I actually feel sorry for her obvious scrabbling to keep her sheep baa-ing at her tackily clad heels. (Maybe she gets a blog award here and there - easy to do when you get all your friends to suck up and vote for you.)
Traci- 433. The hate on this blog is incited by Dooce and her stupidity, not John McCain. (She'll have you believe my comment stems from my "own issues," when in fact the issues I have are with her publicity stunts and see-through cries for attention.) Oh, and zero knowledge of the real election issues.
P.S. Everybody, check the stats and you'll see Democrats give much much less in charitible contributions than Republicans and have significantly higher rates of mental illness, the latter which is readily apparent.
664. Caitlin said:
In response to 656: Nothing said in my former post was meant to be inflammatory, just clearing up a misconception. I consider myself to be liberal, just not the rabid sort of socialist liberal you seem to believe is the only kind who exists. Thank you for your well wishes, but I believe my husband would disagree with you when you tell me he "doesn't know shit" because of his rank in the military. I would say Second Lieutenant is pretty respectable for a 23-year-old man who just joined the military after graduating from college. As for Obama affecting our way of life, I will soon be one of those lawyers liberals hide behind, and there is always business for me. My husband will continue to serve the country he loves proudly, even if he has to take a pay cut.
To be fair, you have to admit that you know nothing of my family's politics. It's a bit ironic to me that the only Democrats to come out of my family are the men who serve our country in the military, and then me. Everyone else has been registered Republican for many, many years. It wasn't a case of being bred a Democrat, but a case of each person deciding for himself or herself what beliefs to live by.
Living through 8 years of George W. Bush has only caused a large amount of mistrust on my part, and a huge loss of faith in my federal government. If the worst thing Obama has done so far is inspire millions to become active in government, Democrat OR Republican, then I'm okay with him up 'til now. I believe in my heart that Obama is the right choice for this country, and I recognize and respect others who don't feel that way. That is the beauty of our political system. If in four years Obama has failed as president, then I will find another person to believe in and support. If in four years, John McCain has overcome all the negative expectations I have on his part, then I will just have to eat my words. More than anything, I want a president who can help to bring our country back together from the bitterly dichotomous state it's in now.
665. Ivan said:
657, Diana
Wow...you agree with everything Heather says? Is that kinda like the not-so-popular girl trying to ingratiate herself with the "it" girl? Everything? Really? Grow some balls.
FYI, the "religious right" is a mythical bogeyman created by leftists to increase political contributions. Agree? No? Well, that sounds ALOT like your theory of the "church" opposing abortion to create more donations. Idiotic.
Rock on sista? Wha? Does that make you feel a little more...liberal? Hip? Ethnic? Spare me.
661, Bev.
Thank you for sharing your story. Be careful, now. You are going against the feminist liberal orthodoxy and are now an 'open-season' target. You've shown you're not an "authentic" woman, and therefore are fair game for any attack, which has become liberal standard. You've shown more bravery than you know by telling these people what you went through.
Yes, Virginia, THAT is what passes for liberalism these days.
666. faemom said:
I'm so glad you're as upset as I am. I was pissed off that McCain believes the government has a right to make my choice for me. As though women are going around thinking sh=- did I mess up the months, am I already eight months pregnant, better get the kid out because I'm depressed. Right. I'm a mom with kids, so if my health's in danger from a pregnancy; if it's me or the baby; I have to say me because my kids need me. How selfish of me to put my family above my unborn child.
667. Kellie said:
It confounds me to no end that many of your readers believe that I should have the right to choose to kill my baby before it is born, but I should not have the right to choose how to give my own money to people who need it.
I'm not competent enough to be responsible for my own money, but SURELY I should be allowed to terminate life, if I so choose. Oy.
~A woman voting for McCain
668. Jannie said:
Just checking in here. Wow. Am I missing something or does this whole post seem to help McCain's camp more than drive people away from him? I find that really ironic. But good, since McCain is clearly the better choice over Obama.
Diana, (657) do you actually agree 100% with what another person says? All the time? Wow, seriously, no offense but that makes you seem totally drugged or brain-washed.
And Diana, if you click Dooce's ads too often you could put her in jeopardy for invalid clicks, which would actually be a detriment to her. So be careful.
669. Talon said:
#650, get over yourself.
Consenting to sex is not consenting to pregnancy any more than getting in a car and driving is consenting to being in an auto accident.
I have children. Both were planned and wanted. One is dead.
So bite me. I'm pro-choice, because I don't think another woman's body is MY BUSINESS. Well, unless I'm currently shagging that woman. Then her body and her pleasure are totally my business.
Oh, and also, just so you know...God doesn't care whether or not you abort. Cause if he did, well then would he have given us the tools to do so? Yeah, didn't think so.
And with that, I'm off to bed.
Toodles.
670. Jannie said:
Ivan, I don't know who you are but you're clearly not terrible.
671. Angie said:
Although I do see reasons for abortion (incest, rape and health) I am not pro-abortion and deeply resent the argument being made by "feminists" that this is the only issue that should matter in this election. This is not a one dimensional race and to reduce it as such is insulting.
"the courage of a pregnant mother to bring her child into the world"
When some of you heard such negativity in this statement, I heard something entirely different. I am raising two beautiful adopted sons thanks to the courage and selflessness of another woman.
672. Anonymous said:
Why any woman who intends to vote for OBAMA should reconsider
673. Ivan said:
Talon, for a second there I thought you were actually serious about this pressing issue o' the day.
Your flip comments about shagging chicks is a blatant attempt at sounding hip and cool and somehow minimizing the aspect of this debate. Again, I sympathize with the loss of your son but it has nothing to do with the argument at hand, nor does it give you some unquestionabel moral authority to weigh in.
Besides...by YOUR STATEMENT, if a man is shagging a chick and gets her pregnant, then HIS opinion regarding HER body is TOTALLY his business (YOU said if 'I'm shagging her then...her body is totally my business) then HE SHOULD HAVE A SAY IN WHETHER OR NOT THAT BABY IS CARRIED TO TERM. Somehow I think you disagree with that statement despite clearly stating the contrary. Just more inconsistent arguments from the pro-abortionists.
If not, I applaud your ideas regarding men having equal say in conceiving and raising children. Somehow I think that last sentence is wasted on you.
674. Ivan said:
656, Caitlan
Hey, I applaud your husband joining the military. I was 22 when I was commissioned and I'm a 35 yr old Major now. Like I said, 2lt's don't know much.
Your statements make me curious. You say you're about to be a lawyer, and your husband took a pay cut to join the USAF. Is he a lawyer, too? JAG?
675. Kellie said:
Uh...Ivan? Talon? Seriously. Get a room already.
676. Amy J. said:
I was just beginning to think that Dooce sucks for inciting so much crap...then I read all of the comments and saw so MANY well written, intelligent, funny, informed and just plain "hell yes" comments from my fellow McCain supporters.
Just like Joe the Plumber, Dooce you've managed to pull those McCainiacs like me out of lurkedom! Thanks. I was beginning to really worry there was no chance in hell McCain could win. But now, I have hope (sorry to steal Obama's catch word) that he might. You've managed to hit just the right nerve to bring the conservatives out of hiding in what would seemingly be the most unlikely of places...your blog.
Again, thanks...and hey guys, thanks for joining in. You oughta follow on over to Jon's site too, where I am often the token "jump on the conservative" poster. I could use the support, and so could McCain! I've read all the comments and found many very, very impressive. I'd address you all but I can't go back through that many comments. You know who you are. Well done and you have my respect and support as a fellow McCain supporter, especially those women, who, like me, were fully insulted by the topic of this particular post.
677. Anonymous said:
Shocking to read a woman compare a fetus to a car wreck.
You are brainwashed. I hope you never come in contact with my child.
678. Anonymous said:
I'm not voting for McCain because I particularly like him; I'm voting for him because there is no way I can endorse Obama. And I don't think I'm alone in thinking this way.
679. Glenn M said:
How is abortion rights at the front end of this election? Shit there are many other issues more pressing. I disagree with the Republican view on this but still. Palin's thoughts are bizzare to me but OK this isn't an abortion election.
There are much more important issues than abortion in this election. You chose to make it a main theme in this post but its not. Again I don't agree with Palin or McCain on this front but really we have bigger problems.
The economy is the issue and while you can blame Bush all you want it was the Democrats that pushed the Alt-A deals which corrupted the system...Pelosi, and Frank...I'll have to check on Dodd but I suspect that he too was involved. If you decide to check it out it was the sub-prime loans that they championed which opened up the flood gates. Lots of greedy brokers in general and on Wall Street who then sold them to banks and other Countries bought them. As long as the fees were coming in they were good. Stupid greedy bastards really but it was the democrats who opened up the credit envrionment to loan to people who weren't qualified. That's what tanked our economy if you care to look...or at the very least was the start of the downfall.
Iraq war...no prize either...just a pissing away of us...that one goes squarely on the shoulders of Bush. Glad its going better now but really...wasn't necessary.
Getting back to the economy. Do you know what this means?
You don't know me, of course, but I finance small businesses. Which means I help supply about 85% or more of all jobs in this country. Not me personally of course but in general.
Take for instance this:
I have a deal I'm trying to get financed for the construction of a shopping center. Total deal is about $50 million. Anchored by a major grocery store so that means there will be perhaps a couple of barber's or hair salon's probably a Starbucks but it already has an AutoZone and Burger King leased...most of the rest are smaller things...a dry cleaner and whatnot...you know the things that you see everyday. The borrower is very qualified and the terms I get for him now are stupid. I was embarrassed to even discuss them.
How does this apply to you? Fair enough question. When that shopping center gets built that means construction workers have jobs. The fees they pay to the city means the city workers get paid. The real benefit is this...people in the neighborhood have new services much closer to them if they choose to use them but really its this. I have no idea of how many people a supermarket employs and while most aren't terribly well paying jobs it does give an opportunity. They are the biggest employer in my example but think of the other places...Burger King...I'm sure there's a formula but new jobs. Other services...more jobs. Again lower paying jobs perhaps but who knows what kind of manufacturer or other service which might benefit from this. Its all integrated.
Take this one step further and more personal. When that deal closes I get a comission...I'm a photographer to (yes I'm not just some useless corporate guy) I use that to buy more lenses and whatnot. I also buy a trip to say for example to Arizona where I buy an airline ticket and hotel rooms and restaurants and tours.
Do you see how this works? I get to finance my shopping center which I get to sell off. The shopping center gets built and they in turn employ many (probably hundreds given shifts and whatnot). This encourages more expansion in the area as its now lively. I get my commission and I get to buy my equipment and take my trips. But more importantly than me the guy who did this might want to do this in another community. This creates more jobs for both construction and retail workers.
My point is this. You can bitch about Bush all you want and I won't argue you on this but what caused this was the downfall of the residential market which caused the demise of the commercial market.
Sorry but it was the democrats who caused it...argue with me all you want. It is what it is...If you want to do some research Alt-A was the major reason....look it up if you'd like.
I'm sure very few of you will read this...sorry to go against Heather whom I agree with on several aspects...this one is off.
Bush was no prize to be sure...'idiot' well...that's in play.
I know this started out as an abortion issue but really I never saw the point in that. The Supreme Court of this country hasn't overturned Rowe.v.Wade as far as I recall.
Pick a more relevant issue
Glenn
680. JoyLuck76 said:
At this time, there is nothing in your post that would make me reconsider my McCain vote because I don't see abortion as the priority issue in this election. I'm a libertarian, so I am pro-choice, but I'm also fiscally conservative, beleive in capitalism and the free markets and may lose my house if our small businesses fail in this economy. Obama's tax plan will hurt my family and the about 20 other families when we have to close our doors and lay them off. There is no candidate or party currently that I am fully aligned with, unfortunately, so some things have to take priority over others. Here's hoping we'll see Ron Paul again in four years! Until then, for me, it has to be McCain.
681. Debbie said:
If any of you would watch the video where John McCain uses the dreaded air quotes, you would realize that he wasn't saying that the health of the mother is a hypothetical issue. He is saying that the law being written in a way that has an exception for the "health of the mother" provides a loophole for the selfish women who simply want the abortion.
Any women who goes about the act of getting pregnant puts herself at risk. Not only of pregnancy, but the chance that the pregnancy could go wrong. It's a horrible, horrible thing, a women dying during or because of a pregnancy. It's a tragedy, as is any death. However, the woman has had a chance to live, and she should have the decency to give that chance to the child.
682. Regan said:
I am not a natural Democrat. I feel strongly that big government gets most things wrong. I would honestly like to vote Republican someday, but they keep making it freaking impossible. They keep coming back with bigger and more expensive governments with a greater desire to control my life. How is that better?
Given one wish for this election, I would wish for people to stop calling Mr. Obama "Hussein". It reeks of racism, and that's not okay in reasonable, informed debate. There are smart, kind people out there who will not vote for Obama. Fair enough, that's what demoracy's all about. But don't do it to indulge antiquated prejudices. Have a real reason, for God's sake.
683. Brad said:
So,
1)I'm a man.
2)Thursday night my wife's face glowed when she walked into my office with her hand behind her back. She had been costume shopping and I wondered what she was going to try to make me wear... But Nope We're Pregnant!
3)I've been starring at her belly for the past two days in a space between ,love, marvel, fear, "holy sh*t!",inquiry... However, I've had to think about the abortion issue in an honest way I hadn't before.
4)I have been and continue to be Pro-Choice
5)I am also Pro-Life... (Seriously, Who the hell isn't?) They are not mutually exclusive. Obama said, "No one is for abortion." I believe it's true.
6)My wife and I (little one included) are both Pro-Obama
Note:
I am starting my own blog inspired by dooce!... http://intraveina.com
Brad
684. kelli said:
i think the real question that needs to be explored is when does life begin?
i was pro-choice until i read this book: http://www.amazon.com/Pro-Life-Answers-Pro-Choice-Arguments-Expanded/dp/...
a lot of the arguments i've read in these comments, are the same arguments people used to defend slavery. kinda scary.
it seems hard for people to put their emotions aside and debate rationally about this topic with logic/facts and science...i know bc it use to be hard for me too.
685. J. Bo said:
@Katie #647 and all those anti-choicers who agree abortion should be allowed in cases of "rape or incest"...
Think long and hard about what you're REALLY saying, which is, essentially, that women who WILLINGLY have unprotected sex should be legally punished with an unwanted pregnancy and forced to carry that pregnancy to term... but women who UNWILLINGLY have unprotected sex shouldn't be punished at all, but be allowed to make their own very private decisions.
The unspoken (yet VERY clear) issue at stake isn't "life" and when it begins, or any other angels-on-the-head-of-a-pin philosophical discussion, but rather the control of women's sexuality and reproductive autonomy (an ancient concern, by the way, if any of you care to do some actual research).
Either you're "pro-life" or you're not. The "rape/incest" cop-out is moral relativism at its very WORST.
Now, I'm solidly pro-choice and vote accordingly, but I have to say that I have a lot more respect, ethically, for those who oppose abortion and don't make exceptions based on a woman's sexual behavior. The "rape/incest" crowd are creepy sexists who don't even KNOW they're creepy sexists; sadly, they think they're "humane."
686. Anonymous said:
Has anybody that has read these very sincere and serious posts, and the comments surrounding them, actually changed their mind about McCain/Palin for the worse? What will it take for you to do so?
687. Betina said:
It seems that both links posted refer specifically to rare events that would make abortion the logical, safest choice. Infections, pregnancy complications... many in the comments have mentioned incest etc. Termination of pregnancy under these conditions should not be prevented by law.
However, I wonder how many abortions performed each year actually fall into these categories and how many human lives are terminated for the sake of convenience?
I believe that human life is a precious commodity. I have adopted 3 children... I thank my God every day that their First Mothers chose life.
688. Sue said:
Okay, Everyone STOP.
Take a deep breath.
This election is not about Abortion. Pro-life, Pro-choice....we all want the same thing. NO ONE is saying abortion is a good thing-just as Obama so eloquently said.
Please consider all the other factors when making a decision. There are other issues at stake.
Never forget that palin is one old man's last breath from the Presidency of the United States. She is the only person that can sink the country further into oblivion than Bush!!!
Barack Obama is well thought out, articulate and capable. Doesn't take decades of experience to prove that. Our business and child prodigies (eg Bill Gates, Steve Job, Google) prove that YOUNG can still hit it WAY OUT OF THE BALLPARK on their first try! Smart is smart. End of story.
689. Anonymous said:
Ohhh I see we did get under Ivan's skin. I pity people like you, Ivan. Stop generalizing, you fuckin idiot.
690. Anonymous said:
And I can smell your dick cheese from here.
691. Stephanie said:
Pro-lifer here - I certainly don't consider myself "disconnected" - absolutely voting for McCain, for many reasons. Doesn't make me enjoy your blog any less, I just happen to have a completely opposite, though just as intelligent and informed opinion as some others posting here. I think it's cool to see so many others doing their homework, and voting the issues and what truly matters to them. I respect every informed voter, even if we cancel each other out!
692. Susie said:
I haven't read all the comments, so forgive me if this repeats something already here.
Not a defense of McCain, but perhaps a little more info, to shed some light on the air-quotes. I think McCain assumes that viewers, listeners, voters, even, are of his era, have the same "common knowledge" that he does. Wrong assumption, of course.
In the early years of the abortion debate, when most Americans were not in favor of abortion on demand, but were in favor of abortions where the "health of the mother" was at risk, there was controversy over what "health of the mother" meant. On one side were those who would have restricted it to meaning "life of the mother is endangered." At the other end of the spectrum were people who were truly in favor of abortion on demand, but in order to appear more mainstream, marched under the "health of the mother" banner. For those folks, "health of the mother" was a very nebulous concept, and extended to women who would feel really upset, emotionally unhappy at the thought of continuing the pregnancy.
Having lived through that time in history and remembering it quite well, the air-quotes didn't hit me in the same way they did many people here. I understood that gesture to be a reference to those who would interpret "health" so loosely as to make it a meaningless term in the discussion.
I do agree that a phrase or two of explanation would have been the way to go; air-quotes after about age 12 -- not so useful.
693. Maggie said:
The number one cause of death amongst pregnant women is murder. I didn't believe it at first, but I looked it up and found it is verifiable fact. If murder doesn't constitute a threat to a woman's health, nothing does. I am by no means "pro-abortion", nor is anyone I know, but I believe that my pro-choice stance has a lot to do with respecting life, even that overlooked constituency of grown women's lives.
Thanks for occasionally going political, Dooce. Yours is a much-heard voice, and you use it well.
694. Jaime said:
Heather, I think you're awesome and I appreciate both this post and your right to write whatever you want on it.
I want to say in response to some of the other folks leaving comments that I'm always troubled by women saying "get your laws off my body." We NEED legislation, pro-choice legislation, that protects our bodies and our rights to make decisions about what happens to them.
That's all.
Jaime
695. Mother of 2, Maine said:
I respect your right to add politics to your blog. As a mother, I agree it's imperative we discuss these things.
Two things swayed me completely away from McCain: Sarah Palin and this article from Rolling Stone:
http://www.rollingstone.com/news/coverstory/make_believe_maverick_the_re...
696. Anonymous said:
So you're against killing terrorists but you're FOR killing babies? NICE! Hope you'll be happy in a socialist world after Obama becomes president. Hope you won't mind when he takes away your hard earned money and gives it to others that haven't earned it.
697. Anonymous said:
Quite clearly 696 did not read the articles linked in this blog.
698. The Furry Godmother said:
#695 I agree that article is a MUST read for everyone. It states the facts about John McCain's life in a clear fashion.
As for the abortion issue, if you don't believe in it; don't have one.
Read the Rolling Stone article #695 mentions. Form an opinion based on many facts, not just one issue.
If you find something you think isn't credible, go the factchecker.com or snopes.com .
699. Carrie said:
I think a lot of people leaving comments did not read the articles linked in this blog...
Heather's post isn't about abortion...at least not in the way the commenters seem to be suggesting. The government has absolutely no business trying to legislate an individual's health decisions. As it happens, the health decisions in the above mentioned posts happened to deal with terminating pregnancies. Had they been something else, say how the government wants to legislate how to treat cancer, I wonder what these comments would look like.
Abortion, like many other topics in today's society, is not a black and white issue...so many different stories, so many shades of gray. But it just goes to show how divisive our country has become. When this election is all said and done, we all have to live here together. It would be nice if we could all show a little tolerance.
700. Anonymous said:
Ohmygoodness!
McCain used air quotes?
Then I agree, I should definitely vote for Obama!
What would I do without the opinions of others?
I may have had to avoid peer pressure and make an informed decision.
701. Gretchen said:
A few thoughts on this:
1. McCain's political stance is "safe, legal, and rare" - I find it hard to disagree with that, regardless of how little he understands the issue on a personal level.
2. Roe v Wade was a mistake - to be clear, I'm pro-choice, but according to the US Constitution, the legislative branch had no right to rule on that case. Abortion is supposed to be under the jurisdiction of congress, or the states. (Since no one has ever challenged Roe v Wade on this basis, I doubt it's going away anytime soon.)
3. Given point two above, the president has virtually no ability to impact whether abortion remains legal or not. So making this an issue that impacts your vote for president is pointless and detrimental to the many other issues the president CAN impact. Ask your congressional candidates about their views. Don't ask your presidential candidates - they don't matter on this issue.
4. Palin is pro-life... but since she won't be able to impact my ability to choose an abortion (either as VP or as Prez), I don't see this as a reason to vote or not vote for McCain.
702. Jeppe said:
Colin Powell is endorsing Barack Obama.
Hopefully that will turn some Republican heads.
703. Oregonian said:
This is why I hoped Guliani would make the ticket. Republicans are supposed to be about keeping the power at the state level and less control over our everyday lives at the federal level. What's happened to t he Republican party?
704. Michelle said:
To comment 29, laura
You said: "My family has adopted five children - all special needs. All who might've been aborted because they were special needs. They weren't and now my family is more blessed because of the children we have."
I'm guessing that the 5 special-needs children that your family adopted were born after Roe v. Wade, meaning their biological parents had the choice to abort but rejected that choice in favor of another choice. So, what's your point? They weren't aborted, and that's the beauty of being pro-choice: If you want an abortion, for your own reasons, no one is going to stop you, but no one is going to stop you if you choose to exercise your right to give birth and either become a parent or give the child up for adoption.
I really don't understand the fear behind the pro-life movement, as if scary liberals are going to round up every pregnant woman and force them to abort. Don't want an abortion, don't have one. The Republicans, on the other hand, want to round up all the pregnant woman and keep them quarantined until they pop. Thanks, but I prefer choice.
705. Nancy said:
Carrie #699--"The government has absolutely no business trying to legislate an individual's health decisions."
So true. The idea behind your statement makes me wonder why people want to allow the government to legislate health care. Nationlized/socialized health care is a joke. Why would anyone want the government deciding when they can consult with a doctor, which one they can see, and whether the treatment they require is authorized? My uterus isn't the only body part that I want the government to steer clear of.
Interesting side note: I've noticed as I've read through these comments that some of you are actually Libertarians (like me)and probably don't even realize it.
706. V4M said:
I only see a dangerous socialist with ties to terrorism being glorified by people who think that his ideas will bring this nation much needed CHANGE. I come from a socialist/communist country and the thought of this man being in power sends a chill through my whole body. The only thing we have to do now is wait and see.
707. Bristol Palin said:
Very heavy stuff. Strong points of view. Thank you for the post
708. jennielynn said:
A more troubling implication of McCain's policies is birth control, which isn't always readily avaiable without health insurance. When we take one step back in rights afforded to women, we make it easier to take another step back. My great-grandmother used to tell me about birth control being illegal. My grandmother remembers that time and being pregnant at 14, scared and newlywed to an abusive man. I don't think abortion is the right choice, but I can only make that decision for myself, not for every woman out there and I'll be damned if I let an old man who has never carried a child in him to make that decision for us as well.
709. samcarter said:
Wait, you want the government out of your uteruses...but in your business, mandating where you get your health care, and deciding exactly when your kid can get that health-improving procedure under a national health care system? That's how it works in countries with National Health care systems. I have a friend who lives in Ireland and you know what? No cozy birth plans there. She was told, "You get a midwife and gas, that's it because that's what we have." No doctor on call; a surgeon in the hospital just in case.
I find it funny that the same people who want the government to swoop in and solve everybody's health care and money issues, want that same government to stay the hell away from unborn babies who don't deserve to die.
Oh, and for the record, I'm against the bailout. Stupidest idea Congress and Bush ever thought up.
I'm a woman, and I'm voting for McCain/Palin. Because if we don't worry about protecting the most vulnerable individuals in our society, all the puffery about helping others with our tax dollars, spreading the wealth around, and taxing those rich small business owners means nothing. At all. We live in a culture of death, and that's a crying shame.
710. Anonymous said:
No one has a right to determine what a woman does with her own body. I have personally been on both sides of this issue. I had an abortion. I was 17 and scared to death and it was the worst thing I have ever done in my life. But at the time, I had my whole life ahead of me and did what I felt was right. I couldn't possibly raise a child and everything I had worked so hard for would have been destroyed. Four years later, I was pregnant. Unplanned. And I knew that regardless of how my plans would change, I had to bring this baby into the world. But I can also look at a seventeen year old girl who was raped and is now faced with the most horrifying decision of her life and say, without a doubt, that she has a RIGHT to make that decision.
711. Pam said:
i have to weigh in on this one. i think there is never a reason for partial birth abortion when the fetus is viable. some of these abortions are done on fetuses that are of viability like the 23 plus weekers i take care of in my NICU. i say deliver the baby for the health of the mother if needed, not kill it. read about partial birth abortion. it's heinous. they are delivering everything but the head then killing the baby by sucking it brains out.
dooce i've read your blog for years. i cannot read it anymore. i am appalled by you and your followers. your uterus rights and a living human being are two different things. also i guess it's easy to be for it when you're safe from the womb.
best wishes. i will not be returning.
712. Sarah said:
In my opinion, abortion is the exact same thing as you taking Leta to the kitchen and sticking some sharp device into her head to kill her because she is just too inconvenient for you right this minute. It is the exact same thing in my opinion. I know the argument for keeping it legal is that women will start dying from back street abortions. And??? It's ok for that baby to die but not for the mother? She had a choice in that matter, the baby did not. I do not understand choosing the right between one incredibly selfish human being and of another who can make no decisions for itself. If you don't think mothers who abort are selfish trolls you need to spend 5 minutes with an infertile couple who are desperate for a baby.
That said, I am still not voting for McCain. The fact he is not the Supreme court and it is not a matter of him simply waiving a magic wand and making abortion illegal. And, my biggest reason, is that if you think gay marriage and abortion are the biggest things in the world right now it is time for everyone to step outside of their bubble. If the world was so perfect that all I had to worry about was gay marriage and abortion then we would be in great shape! In 2008 the war that mentally killed my husband and the economy outweigh those moral issues....which means Obama will get my vote. I may not agree with his stand on gay marriage or abortion but I have no doubt he will heal our economy and help our military be the best that it can be.
I will be glad when the website becomes an enjoyable read again and not a platform for politics, even though I agree with a lot of what you say this stuff just gets really really old.
713. Willie WIlliams said:
As a life long republican who believes in a woman's right to make her own choices on what happens to her body, I agree that this is certainly not the issue that should make or break your decision on who to vote for in November. Neither candidate is going to become King and change everything in the ol' good USA all by themselves.
For those who have not yet decided who you are voting for this year, have you not found your thinking cap yet? It's not like we are talking about choosing between Geroge Clooney and Brad Pitt. There are not going to be any big revelations in the next couple weeks unless you are planing on McCain dying of old age next week and the ticket becoming Palin - Fey.
714. Caitlin said:
To Ivan, no, my husband isn't a lawyer. He graduated from college with his degree in Political Science and is in graduate school now, working towards a masters in International Relations. He's debating whether or not he wants to attend law school, and already took his LSAT. He didn't take a pay cut to join the military, what I was saying is that if he does have to take a pay cut in the future, he wouldn't mind at all.
715. Michelle said:
Thank you for posting this. I think this election is going to be extremely important and your blog is read by so many different people that if even one person is changed by what you've said then that is a good thing. Keep doing what you are doing!
716. Anonymous said:
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717. Carrie said:
Did I miss the part of Obama's health care proposal that says the government will be responsible for choosing our doctors? I thought the premise was to make health insurance available to those who need it by allowing them to have the same plan that government employees enjoy.
Our government controls our military. Our government mandates our public school system. (How many of you crying "socialist" would be able to afford to put your children in private schools if the public school system was not available?) And now the bailout! Why is it that the government shouldn't be able to devise a system to provide health insurance to those who wouldn't otherwise be able to afford it??
Socialism is already at play in our society today...it's all relative.
718. Lindsay said:
When a society puts economic, war and healthcare policy issues over the life of an innocent human being you know the country is doomed. How sad that most of these women believe in the unnecessary killing of MILLIONS of children. This is one of the biggest offenses towards women since, ~51% of those fetuses are female. As women it should be instinctive to try to protect all children. What is this nation going to be in 50+ years if we keep killing it off.
719. Anonymous said:
Dear #717 Carrie,
If the public school system was not available, we could use the tax money we each spend supporting that system to put our children in private school.
720. Anonymous said:
I didn't read all the comments, so maybe someone has already said this, but I have always believed and will always believe that any MALE is not qualified to make a decision that affects only the FEMALE population. That includes the Supreme Court and any MALE members of congress, as well as the President. Until the time comes (which never will) that this decision can be made by women who have faced this decision, and only women who have faced this decision, then choice is the only answer. I have never faced this decision and I don't even feel I have the ultimate qualifications to make this decision, despite the fact that it COULD happen to me or my daughter or granddaughter. And this doesn't mean that McCain's position is right because he has a female running mate. She is just one woman -- this decision must be made by a diversified group of women who have agonized over the real possibility of having or not having an abortion. Oh, and there should also be diversity in their situations (married, not married, raped, etc.)
That's my pie in the sky opinion. Until then, we must have choice.
721. Anonymous said:
@ #719 - Sure, in a perfect world. Tax dollars would be allocated exactly how they should. I mean, I'm sure that money wouldn't go to something else...like a government bailout of failed banks and insurance companies...
722. Bulldog said:
According to some, I have the wrong plumbing to even participate in this discussion, so just consider me an apostate sitting in a back pew here in the Church of Heather. I expect I'll either be ignored or booed down anyhow.
From what I saw, McCain simply stated that the "health" exception has been redefined into "any reason that I can think of."
Gee, I forgot a condom, so let's nuke that potential little crabby, crying poop machine!
Is that the way it really should be? Abortion for any reason or no reason? Obama has essentially the same position, so what's the sub rosa context here? Another way to deify Obama? That's what it sounds like. Damn the facts. He's our savior. Appropriate, I guess, in the Church of Heather.
723. Meg said:
Gah! I hate the idea that we need legislation to stop women pretending to have health issues to get an abortion. Is it because he doesn't believe there are any situations where pregnancy can kill? History is just full of women dying in childbirth.
Maybe he thinks that we women make up health problems all the time to use abortion as birth control. Because abortions are easier, cheaper, more comfortable physically and emotionally, and more accessible than using a condom
724. Talon said:
Ivan, considering I can't get another woman pregnant, I think my bit of humor there was completely lost on you.
725. Talon said:
And STILL the comments in this thread about "Partial birth abortion" are laughable. People have really bought into this fallacy!! Even people who supposedly work in the medical field!! That is just insane.
All the more reason for the choice to be between the woman and her doctor.
For those of you not in the know...early induction for a BABY...a wanted, planned baby who will not survive outside the womb does not always work. Hell everyone here should know that inductions for HEALTHY full term babies don't always work!! There is a reason that this proceedure is rare in the first place. Because situations where it is the best option are RARE.
"Just deliver it!! It's like the premature babies I take care of in the NICU!!" Use your brains, people. If it were that simple...don't you think they'd do it? Oh, and if a parent decides not to put their very premature baby through all the pain and uncertinaty and such of trying to save them, guess what. They don't have to. Some choose to let their children die naturally and peacefully in their arms rather than subject them to that.
Ivan, I DO enjoy debating this with you, and I apologize that my flippant little bit of very late at night humor did not have the intended effect. Like everything else concerning pregnancy, I believe the man involved has exactly as much say as the woman allows him to have. Once the sperm left his body, his say in what happens is done, unless the woman decides otherwise. There is no clause for biological fairness, as we aren't seahorses, regretfully.
726. Anonymous said:
Here is what I find amazing...that people are trying to turn this into an abortion issue. For the sake of this discussion, it doesn't really matter where you fall along the spectrum of abortion.
Let's say that a pregnant woman (married, mother of two other children for the sake of this illustration) finds out that her pregnancy is putting her life in danger. That if she continues to be pregnant, she will, in fact, die. And let's just say that at this point in her pregnancy, her baby may or may not survive if it is delivered. Are you really telling me that you would be okay if the government dictated how you were to proceed? I would imagine (based on reading these comments) that a lot of you might say that you would go ahead with the pregnancy, even if it killed you just to give that baby a chance. But shouldn't that be something you and your family have the right to choose? And would you be able to look that husband and those children in the eyes and say, "Yes, I know you would like your wife/mother to live, but sorry, rules are rules..." Really???
727. Amy said:
Heather~~After reading all the comments, I'm a little scared for your safety. Please lock your doors and hug your family tight. There are lunatics out there! Be safe and stay brave.
728. Sunny said:
Not at all along the serious lines of abortion but super dang funny Palin fun: http://palinaspresident.us/
729. Amy J. said:
Talon,
I have no idea why are you refusing to see how sick and unnecessary a late term abortion is. My husband is a doctor, I can assure you there is VERY RARELY (as in such a small percentage it's not even recordable) a situation in which a mother's health would be at issue delivering a second or third trimester fetus. Ob/gyn doctors are surgeons. If they unsuccessfully induce a woman or there is a situation that is life-threatening, they would, especially in an emergency, perform an emergency caesarian. It happens every day in every hospital in this country. I've known women who have opted, with fetal demise during pregnancy, to be induced and deliver. Those women would NOT have to have this procedure. They would simply give birth or have a c-section. The ONLY reason to have this procedure done is to KILL the baby. Bottom line. NO way you can argue any other way.
I quote from a medical ethics textbook given to many physicians during training Talon!
"...the consensus is that most late-term abortions are immoral."
"The defining characteristic of late-term abortions is that the fetus is either viable or periviable, that is, able or possibly able to survive outside the uterus. By this time the fetal human body has developed neurological centers for perception and Doppler studies of blood flow in the brain after the 18th week strongly suggest that fetuses experience distress during invasive procedures on the fetal trunk."
"A fetus subject to late term abortion is sentient and hence exists as a human being sensing its environment."
Doctors take an oath, the Hippocratic Oath, to preserve life. It is against what every doctor is trained to do, vows to do and does each day, to KILL a human being...no matter what state of development or under any circumstance. Very rarely in modern medicine would a physician have to choose between the life of one of it's patients...because both the mother and baby are his/her patients. Medicine is equipped to handle BOTH and would attempt to in any necessary situation. You are incredibly naive, in denial or purely monstorous in your view of what this procedure actually is...does. It simply is a way, MUCH TOO LATE, for a woman to avoid being a mother. Whether that baby would be viable, deformed, perfectly fine, there is no reason that anyone should ever be allowed to have this done. It is beyond inhuman, it is abominable.
By the way, do you realize why they keep the head in the uterus as they crush the skull? Honestly, it isn't because they need to "pull the head out". Be sensible, a woman's cervix is made to stretch and open...it could easily pass a mid term fetus!!! It is because, as along as the baby is killed semi- in utero, the killing peformed by the doctor can't be classified as murder. If a doctor purposefully takes an object and rams it into a human beings skull, no matter what the law is about abortion or what the mother asks him to do, it would be murder! He couldn't smother the baby either, give it an injection, stomp on it with his foot. He can withhold care, technically, and let the baby dies on it's on, if it's under the whole guise of abortion. But once the baby is out...takes a breath, is alive at all, outside of it's mother and the doctor acts in a way to cease life, it IS murder. Sorry to burst your bubble on this compassionate procedure. You are FULL of shit.
And I'm pro-choice mind you. And for those interested, this is the oath my husband took, and most all doctor's take unless they opt not to (I don't know any that haven't). They do this in a ceremony, together, as a group, and are given a signed oath to keep. My husband's hangs in his office. He acts in good faith on that oath each and every day:
I swear by Apollo Physician and Asclepios and Hygeia and Panacea and all the gods and goddesses, making them my witnesses, that I will fulfill according to my ability and judgment this oath and this covenant:
To hold him who has taught me this art as equal to my parents and to live my life in partnership with him, and if he is in need of money to give him a share of mine, and to regard his offspring as equal to my brothers in male lineage and to teach them this art - if they desire to learn it - without fee and covenant; to give a share of precepts and oral instruction and all the other learning to my sons and to the sons of him who has instructed me and to pupils who have signed the covenant and have taken an oath according to the medical law, but no one else.
I will apply dietetic measures for the benefit of the sick according to my ability and judgment; I will keep them from harm and injustice.
I will neither give a deadly drug to anybody who asked for it, nor will I make a suggestion to this effect. Similarly I will not give to a woman an abortive remedy. In purity and holiness I will guard my life and my art.
I will not use the knife, not even on sufferers from stone, but will withdraw in favor of such men as are engaged in this work.
Whatever houses I may visit, I will come for the benefit of the sick, remaining free of all intentional injustice, of all mischief and in particular of sexual relations with both female and male persons, be they free or slaves.
What I may see or hear in the course of the treatment or even outside of the treatment in regard to the life of men, which on no account one must spread abroad, I will keep to myself, holding such things shameful to be spoken about.
If I fulfill this oath and do not violate it, may it be granted to me to enjoy life and art, being honored with fame among all men for all time to come; if I transgress it and swear falsely, may the opposite of all this be my lot.
730. GBursiaga said:
#276 - I do get to hear from the voice of my son, who was almost aborted by his birthmother, but because she did have a CHOICE, he is here and mine through adoption.
So yeah, nothing wrong with being PRO - CHOICE.....choose life!
731. Kirk said:
They're alled D&C's and hospitals do them and call them that even if it's an abortion. No president can overturn RvW because the Supreme Court won't touch it because of its 35 year precedence. Do your research.
Obama spent 143 days in office before he launched his empty campaign. I'm a democrat voting for McCain, you know, someone who has actually BEEN at his job.
No one will end this war in less than 2 years. Do your research.
732. Talon said:
AmyJ, I have given birth to a baby who had a defect that was incompatible with life. As the mother of such, I also have known many many mothers who knew before giving birth (as I did not) that their child would not survive outside the womb. I KNOW many of these mothers who have opted for late term abortions, and some of them have had the "partial birth abortion" proceedure done. None of their babies had collapsed skulls. An ancephalic baby, for example often will not birth on it's own because its incomplete skull does not put the pressure necessary on the cervix to assist in dilation and pushing. Other conditions render the fetus stiff and unable to move, or be moved into a position to be birthed. Others simply will NOT go into labor as they should, even induced.
I don't care if your husband is a doctor. I have had a first trimester therapeutic abortion (blighted ovum) and a newborn death. I know women who have had to make a heartwrenching decision, whether to continue a pregnancy for a doomed child and let nature take its course, or terminate the pregnancy. I know mothers who have had to abort healthy pregnancies because their bodies would not allow them to carry to viability where the fetus would even have a fighting chance!! ALL these woman have ONE thing in common. All these babies were WANTED CHILDREN. So no. I'm not going to listen to you spout off about something you clearly don't know anything about. I know how LTA's work. I know why they are necessary, and must be kept safe and available for the RARE instances where they are the best option for the parents. What you don't seem to see is that you are not god. Neither is your doctor husband. These parents are going through HELL, and they NEED every option available to make the best, most informed decision for their family and themselves.
Get over yourself. And don't try to tell a bereaved parent who spent the first two years after her son died debating abortion and learning all she could about what can go horribly wrong with a pregnancy. I've lived it. I was lucky. My son's condition didn't cause him horrific pain. He looked normal, and acted normal and no one knew anything was wrong until he got sick on his fourth day of life. Why don't you spend some time talking to these mothers who have made this heartbreaking choice, and have undergone the procedure and HELD THEIR BABY AFTERWARDS. Who planned their funerals or private ceremonies or cremations.
Until you've lived and walked in our shoes, don't pretend you know jack shit about the subject. Because doctor husband or not, you DON'T.
733. tedders said:
"695. Mother of 2, Maine said:
I respect your right to add politics to your blog. As a mother, I agree it's imperative we discuss these things.
Two things swayed me completely away from McCain: Sarah Palin and this article from Rolling Stone:
http://www.rollingstone.com/news/coverstory/make_believe_maverick_the_re..."
Anyone who would let an article in "Rolling Stone Magazine" influence their vote shouldn't really be voting in my opinion.
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qn4188/is_20080727/ai_n27961227
http://www.thehotjoints.com/2008/07/14/double-standard-what-about-the-ro...
http://www.nowpublic.com/culture/rolling-stone-endorses-obama
http://www.slate.com/id/2134921/
The fact that anyone would admit in public that they were gathering political information and knowledge from "Rolling Stone" is unbelievable to me. Would you look for medical information in "BEtter Homes and Gardens"? Jeesh, people, look for some REAL, UNBIASED sources. Or maybe Mother of 2, Maine would just like to ask Kayne West how he would vote~~ LOL
734. Rhonda said:
Heather, love the blog, have for years. I dont have anything to add other than my vote is for OBAMA/BIDEN!! Always has been. Mccain is way out of touch and it is scary to hear Palin when she talks her gibberjabber.
735. Oumou said:
Even though I come from a Muslim background, in which abortion views align with Pro-Life views, I do believe in a woman's right to choose. I do not think everyone is meant to be a mother or raise child.
736. Bulldog said:
Heather continually stated "read the referenced sites, or you'll look stupid."
Well, I read the two posts. Julie says:
"Focus instead on the air quotes McCain used, the belittling wiggle of his fingers as he summarily dismissed women facing what's possibly the ultimate lose-lose situation: your baby or your life."
Ok, it's not about abortion. It's about McCain's "finger quotes" and his statement that health is used as an excuse. Fine. Unfortunately, what he says IS true.
Now, then she says:
"Not only is John McCain saying we shouldn't have the right to terminate a pregnancy in the event that our lives are at stake, he's telling us he's skeptical that that happens at all."
Wait . . . it actually IS about abortion.
So, the "finger quotes" were inappropriate. If an inappropriate statement is a prime qualification for president, no one is going to be elected. Mr. Obama has made a few himself.
737. Nancy said:
Tedders--Thank you. I thought the very same thing when I read that post. It is frightening to realize how many people get their information from such dubious sources, or are swayed by the likes of pop stars and 'political entertainers'. I even saw a so-called news story on CNN asking the question, "How much do the SNL skits influence voters?". REALLY?? I can't even fathom living, breathing human beings being influenced by what they watch on a comedy skit. Please, people, put more effort into your decisions. Read factual, unbiased information regarding all of the issues before you go into the voting booth. Don't take the word of your favorite actor, talk show host, rapper, or even blogger as the truth. Educate yourself and make your own informed decision.
738. EJD. said:
This is likely to be the longest comment on here. You'll have to excuse me. These are huge issues and I felt the urge to present my (non-American) perspective:
1) Abortion: I come from one of the most liberal/tolerant countries in the world (the Netherlands). It also happens to be a country of a political system of proportional representation (very democratic, if you ask me) and income-based taxes. The government has legalized abortion there, and despite my personal convictions regarding the life of an unborn child, the government regulation of the practice has resulted in LOWER percentage per capita... (similar to the drug-policies). There are no easy answers concerning abortion, especially when one considers all the hypothetical situations that women find themselves in around the world. NONETHELESS, it is NOT an issue of "what I want to do with my body"! The countless comments of "leave my uterus alone" exasperate me. It is NOT ABOUT YOUR UTERUS! It is all about the value of life, and whether you believe one should take that into one's own hands. Moreover, it is not about choosing one life over the other. It is one thing for a doctor to allow an unborn infant to die while attempting to save the mother's life. But vacuuming/sucking a child out of a mother's womb is horrific. Have you learned about the process? Have you heard about the way the children (even those who are completely formed, to the minute detail of their eyelashes) are taken out of the uterus, body part by body part?? Have you heard about the many doctors who have resigned after having "encounters" with these unborn children, such as the grasp of a tiny hand, etc.?
However horrible/complicated certain pregnancies might be, the way pregnancies are terminated is appalling. Abortion doesn't UNDO a pregnancy. It has consequences.
2) Socialism: (because it was brought up). Government interference isn't so bad, people. Do your homework. I don't understand why Americans are so opposed to the idea of raised taxes, while they are spending THOUSANDS of dollars on higher education and health care. One of the comments mentions America's wonderful economy: uhm...are you sure??? Most of you are in debt- and not just a little bit. Why? Because you'd rather pay your own way (well, your children's way) through college, than let the government hand you a helping hand. And you think your government is staying out of your pocket-book, out of your business? You are working over-hours at your jobs, trying to hold on to them (no labor-unions to protect you).... and for what? So that you don't have to pay higher taxes? Well, the government is using your money: your tax-dollars are going to an expensive war, a controversial war..
I think Americans would benefit from an income-based tax system. Sure, there is the issue of free-riders. Some people will receive what they don't deserve. SO WHAT? Do you think the current system is fair? Remember Heather's question: would we be willing to give to both the crack-addict and the hungry person? Wouldn't you rather pay higher taxes; have access to health-care and education (even if that means that some people don't work and get all the benefits), than going into life-time debt just to pay your own way through school, and buy your cars and televisions? Don't you think EVERYONE deserves health-care and education?
Suit yourselves, though. Stay far away from our scary socialist political system...... If you really think that it is keeping your government out of your business.
Honestly, I pity you for the political system you have. You are expected to choose between two parties- the lesser of the two evils, if you ask me. If you happen to be Christian: you must be a gun-loving, criminal-executing, war-eager Republican. Heaven forbid you are somewhere in between! I remember being labeled a Communist in my Political Science class (when I attended an American university). Simply because I thought it wasn't such a bad idea to let people pay their fair share (albeit higher) for taxes- in order to get all the benefits. What? Does that mean I think governments should order their citizens around? Of course not. IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY! It's ridiculous.
BEFORE I FORGET: Keep RELIGION OUT of it! I happen to be a Christian AND I am AGAINST the war, AND I am against the gun-laws, AND I am against your justice-system. God does not endorse either of your political candidates! Nor does He endorse this war. Nor is America His promised land!!!! Stop blaming Him for the mess your country is in.
I really like America. My family in-law is American.. But American politics REALLY aggravate me.
To make a long story short: I value life (both the life of an unborn child, and the quality of life outside the womb) highly. And governments exist to protect that life- to help citizens along a bit. Some may call that interference, but I think it's a heck of a lot more fair (and civilized) than a supposed system of economic independence. It helps that my government is pluralist: in the sense that it consists of representatives of a wide variety of interest-groups. It is not a system of "the winner takes all". It doesn't waste MILLIONS of dollars on political campaigning..... It has its flaws, like ALL governments, but it doesn't come close to the CIRCUS that is American politics.
Anyway, I think it's great to read all of the political opinions here... I think it's wonderful that Heather doesn't stick to discussions of the daily happenings in her "world". Kudos for getting these vibrant discussions started, Heather! Many of us get a little bit aggressive, perhaps, in defense of our own political convictions... But at least we're dialoguing, no?
739. Aron Michelle Riley said:
I can't help myself these days. I feel like I'm commenting on all of your political blogs lately, but here I goes again...
I am a woman who intends to vote for McCain and instead of boring you with all of my disagreements with Obama's policies, I'll just focus on abortion.
I am pro-life. I believe that every human has the right to life, regardless of the circumstances of his/her conception. Call me naive, but I believe there is a family out there that will adopt that child if the birth parents don't want or cannot take care of him/her. Adoption should be made easier in this country, not irresponsibly so, but enough so that it is a REAL option for birth parents and adoptive parents. Enough of the red tape and outrageous cost!
Now, on the other hand, I am pro-choice. I believe that women and men have birth control options and their right to choose is made before conception of an unwanted pregnancy. This argument, of course, excludes those who are victims of rape and incest.
My husband and I successfully avoided an unwanted pregnancy for years by using birth control. It is not rocket science. I realize that not all methods are 100%, but when used correctly, birth control in all forms is highly effective.
Birth control should be cheap, if not free, and available to women and men. I believe that schools should teach both abstinence and about all birth control options. Perhaps they should even teach about abortion; what it really looks like...especially in late term pregnancy.
Finally, abortion in the case of the mother's life is already legal. That is such a moot point. See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Doe_v._Bolton. This Supreme Court decision also applies to those who conceive due to rape or incest; "medical judgment may be exercised in the light of all factors - physical, emotional, psychological, familial, and the woman's age - relevant to the wellbeing of the patient. All these factors may relate to health."
If McCain is elected, he will not be able to overturn Roe v. Wade or Doe v. Bolton. The "worst" that would happen is that he would nominate libertarian supreme court justices who, if abortion was brought back before the Court, would kick the issue back to the states since the constitution does not address the issue. That's what should have been done in 1973.
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740. Charity said:
Well Aron, glad to know your opinion that the system of who doesn't get "unwantedly" pregnant and who does should be merit-based, as in, based on the quality of health education they receive and access to birth control and how successfully they are able to put that learning into practice. Your comment betrays your lack of understanding, or more likely, outright denial, of environmental constraints / lack of these supports for many women. Yes, everyone should have education and access in equal measure but the reality is they don't, so how about you don't let your privilege, and ignorance thereof, royally fuck over the rest of the people that pregnancy could potentially affect? Kicking it back to the states would indeed be a disaster, and if you are truly "pro-choice" you would not presume to use your personal experience as the basis for deciding everyone else's rights. None of which is actually the point of the original post, by the way.
HEATHER, thank you for your writing and for speaking out in these times, when feigned neutrality is simply wrong.
741. Courtney said:
I tried to read the comments to see if I'm just repeating what someone else wrote, but I started to get a little ill at all the vitriol.
I think that there are lots of great reasons to vote for Obama and not to vote for McCain, but Roe v. Wade is not the central issue here. It's not even the central issue in terms of women's rights and which candidate will better support them.
I do think that if McCain gets elected, croaks, and Palin takes over, she will do a horrible job. Not because she's a woman, but because she sucks. And THAT will mean that there won't be a woman anywhere near the White House for another 20 years, because people would say, "Oh, Palin was so awful" and blame it on her being a woman.
That's my personal feminist worst nightmare scenario.
742. Michelle said:
On a lighter note...I hope you loved my hometown! KC rocks! Where did you go? What did you do?
743. Anonymous said:
For all of those who think McCain won't be able to make a difference re abortion, please be clear HE WILL - because he will appoint at least 2 more judges to the Supreme Court.
The court is currently split 4-4-1 (4 conservatives: Thomas, Scalia, Alito, Roberts vs. 4 liberals: Ginsberg, Breyer, Stevens and Souter; 1 quasi-independent: Kennedy).
Note that liberals Stevens and Ginsberg are both very old and ill -- both are rumored to retire in the next administration. leaving TWO LIBERAL openings for our next president.
First, Roe v. Wade is a Supreme Court case -- so only another Supreme Court decision can overturn it.
The ONLY thing keeping abortion from being overruled is one more CONSERVATIVE VOTE. Right now, you have a vote SPLIT RIGHT DOWN THE MIDDLE: 4 abolish Roe, 4 keep Roe, and 1 who tries to wordsmith his away around it (Kennedy).
All McCain needs to do is appoint another Scalia or Alito --and POOF Roe is OVERTURNED.
All you need is:
(1) McCain replacing one of the liberals for a conservative judge
(2) the pro-life movement to bring a case and appeal it to the Supreme Court (this will take 1-2 yrs to happen)
(3) Poof: Roe v. Wade is gone.
I am pro-choice and an attorney and this scares the be-jesus out of me. And abortion will just the start of it all. Last year, the Supreme Court case Ledbetter case abolished equal pay for equal work for women (google it--- it's astonishing how women -- esp working class women focus on abortion and forget there is a whole wide universe of issues out there where we stand to get hurt if conservatives take hold)
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE realize the next President will pick 2 more Justices -- that to me is probably the most important reason to educate yourself on the issues -- bec that is a LOT of power.
744. Anonymous said:
The thing that always gets me is that most right-to-lifers (and i know several) never talk about what happens to these babies they want to save, and I would say an option is the foster care system, which is a big f-ing mess in this country. It would be great if the groups that are fighting so hard to make abortion illegal could put that same passion and energy into fixing the broken foster care system or perhaps focus on preventing unwanted pregnancies in the first place, by providing education to young people to help avoid making these choices in their futures. It's a frustrating world we live in some times, and I'm not sure there's any way to break through strongly religious minds.
745. Anonymous said:
At least McCain is thinking about protecting the lives of the unborn babies. What about their right to live?
746. Rod said:
There is no doubt that pregnancy can in some circumstances be dangerous to the mother. My own wife, in two of her three pregnancies was in significant danger. In her last one, even though she was in the hospital for an emergency c-section, the surgery had to be delayed and anti-convulsants administered, becuase she was entering eclyampsia. That after four weeks of bed rest and daily monitoring.
I am insulted and offended by the notion that women should not have complete and total control of their own bodies. I can't imagine that abortion is an easy choice for any woman, but that choice should absolutely be left strictly to the woman dealing with it. And it is no one else's business why she makes the decision she does.
On this issue I am absolutely rock solid, set in stone. Pro-choice is the only sensible, and moral approach.
747. Anonymous said:
and neither of them have a uterus
748. DeppFan said:
George Carlin nailed it in his statement below.
"Pro-life conservatives are obsessed with the fetus from conception to 9 months. After that, they don't want to know about you. They don't want to hear from you. No neonatal care, no day care, no head start, no school lunch, no food stamps, no welfare, no nothing. If you're preborn, you're fine; if you're preschool, you're f*cked.
What is so "Christian" about this? All they seem to want are more soldiers to fight their "holy wars".
749. Anonymous said:
Food for thought...
Are any of the readers who are voting for Obama worried about moving towards a more socialized healthcare system in light of our country's sub-par public education system?
In other words, are you at all worried that the same government who funds/runs our public schools would have more control over your healthcare options?
750. Joanna said:
Heather, thanks for your generosity in providing a space for people to share their stories. Don't let the rude people get you down.
751. cat said:
http://www.palinaspresident.us/
Click on the items in the picture and Ms Palin will talk to you...
Be prepared to LYAO.
752. Cat said:
Deppfan, you and Carlin are right. Save the fetus....then what? I have often asked why those who are "pro-life" haven't started adoption agencies, back to work programs, child care centers, prenatal care...Why aren't THEY adopting all these "babies" they want to save?
I also kinda wondered if Palin got on that plane even after her water broke because she hoped she would lose the baby. Just a thought... God may punish me, but what would a sensible person (Jesus?) have done? Stayed put?
753. Julia said:
I like Dooce much more without the political drama.
754. Anonymous said:
I am a healthcare professional. I read Alexa's story, though compelling, government cannot intervene within the realm of actual medical care when the mother's life is deemed "at potential or immanent risk" by the health care establishment. No legislation or government entity would ever take the place of a doctor or health care professional's judgment. The nature of the changes in the law that some would seek would not seek risk as a need for the termination of a late-term fetus. THAT is the difference. I am not a McCain supporter, but I do not support misrepresentation of facts for the soul purpose to propagandize.
755. Sarah said:
@Julie. I agree, it's getting old. The site isn't what it was even a few months ago. Turning this into a political platform is not creative, it's not funny, and it's not entertaining. And it doesn't have any impact on who I am going to vote for. I get the facts for myself. I do not trust ANYONE to decide my vote for me. I miss the enjoyable read this site was a few months ago. It use to be something I looked forward to daily. I miss reading about someone who has the same daily struggles with motherhood and being a wife that I do. I just don't give a rats ass what anyone else's feelings on politics are and if did I would go to CNN. I guess I just miss something I had looked forward to reading each day.
756. Nancy said:
I'm with you on that one, Sarah. I find it somewhat amusing that most bloggers and commenters seem somewhat self-important and actually believe that their personal views will change other people's minds. I highly doubt that a single person that reads these things has had a change of heart about who they will vote for. Everyone just gets caught up in defending their own position. At some point...and I think that critical point has been reached...it becomes redundant and boring, boring, boring.
757. Noelle said:
Ehem...#349..You say that all we have to do is educate ourselves on HOW not to get pregnant. You follow that statement by saying that all we have to do is abstain from sex "a couple of days" out of the month. OK, sadly, you are EXACTLY the person who will find herself pregnant and not understand how it happened. YOU need to educate yourself on how not to get pregnant. First of all, you can be fertile for more than "a couple of days" out of the month. Hell, you can OVULATE more than once in a month! Moreover, sperm can and DO live in the female body for more than "a couple of days" after sex occurs. And finally, there is no 100% sure way to know when you are fertile...I got pregnant THE DAY after my period. I mean the very next day! And I was on birth control.... what were the odds???? Please do a lot more than abstain from sex "a couple of days" a month if you are not 100% ready to make the very difficult decision whether or not you are ready to be a parent.
758. Free women's fitness said:
You don't have to worry Dooce. John Mccain is going to get smashed at this election. Absolutely smashed.
Obama 08!
759. Nike Air Max 90 said:
Man, the comments always get so heated when you blog politics. I love it! You could swing an election with you traffic!
Go Obama. You've got this on in the bag.
760. Leeshka said:
Blech - Pro-Life. The very words gnaw at my soul. I'm using "anti-choice" as my new phrase that pays - I mean, if you're really and truly pro-life, then you're not going to be sending people overseas to fight and die for reasons that are tenuous at best, you're certainly . Anti-choice sums it up so much better.
I am proud to say that this year, the boys (and girls) fighting in the middle east (and all of those who have fought before them), are giving me the greatest gift a soon-to-be 32 year old mother of one could get -- the opportunity to vote on my birthday. As you can imagine, this has made for a very exciting year in my household. I now have a four year old who very proudly states that she is voting for Obama, she has a friend who is "voting" for McCain, and we've been able to teach her that our country is wonderful because everybody is allowed to have their own opinions, even if we don't agree with it. Heck, I'd be taking her to the polls with me if I thought that she could keep her burdgeoning Obamania under control. I know that this is a little bit a tangent, but I can't help the sheer excitement that I feel knowing that on my birthday, history will be made. The world, even if it's just a little bit, will change. Heck, my birthday could well prove to be the most important day of the year!
Keep on doing your political thing, Dooce. Those who would keep you quiet are the same ones that don't want you thinking any differently than they do. I like the funny, sure, but I like the politically charged, mommy blogging, wife/badass that you've become.
761. Anonymous said:
Heather --
After reading your "mortified" post, it occured to me that now you are an exact mirror image of that girl. You freaked out about how far to the right you were, but now I'm think you're just as brainwashed by the extreme liberals as you once were by the extreme rightwingers or your mormon faith.
You were extreme and intolerant then. You are extreme and intolerant now. Not a whole lot has changed.
--a person who is NOT voting for McCain and is still disgusted by your political rants.
762. Elementary Dear said:
No way, HBHA. We should all just write in this guy.
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=856776&b...
763. Jannie said:
[This is from a friend's site today. She's at http://held-prisoner-in-hampton-roads.blogspot.com/ ]
OK, I lied . . .
. . . about no more politics.
However, my intent is not to argue McCain/Obama, but to make a general statement of what I believe in government, and to my friends abroad, it is not the European Model. Sorry. This is the list of "Cannots" oft quoted by both Abraham Lincoln and Ronald Reagan.
"You cannot bring prosperity by discouraging thrift.
You cannot help small men by tearing down big men.
You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong.
You cannot lift the wage earner by pulling down the wage payer.
You cannot help the poor man by destroying the rich.
You cannot keep out of trouble by spending more than your income.
You cannot further brotherhood of men by inciting class hatred.
You cannot establish security on borrowed money.
You cannot build character and courage by taking away man's initiative and independence.
You cannot help men permanently by doing for them what they could and should do for themselves."
- Rev. William J. H. Boetcker
Apply that to candidates as you will . . .
[Wouldn't it be awesome if we took these things into consideration before we vote.]
764. Amy J. said:
For those of you who are fine with socialism, this 60 year old cartoon might be of interest to you.
Anybody on the Right see a certain similiarity with Dr. Utopia and a certain presidential candidate???
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mVh75ylAUXY
I guess us Americans were fools and needless worriers even 60 years ago...when Hitler, Mussolini, Stalin and Lenin were REAL and having their way with the world.
765. Christie said:
McCain is horrible. Vote Obama '08.
766. Christie said:
McCain is horrible. Vote Obama '08.
767. jlws said:
And another thing... I am certainly pro-choice and I think the government should not interfere in choices that I make about my body, but I don't understand how the majority of pro-choice women seem to also be pro-universal healthcare which would turn healthcare choices ENTIRELY over to the government. Heather, how do you justify that position? How can you think that it's wrong for the government to decide about abortion, but think that it's a great idea for the government to decide about every other aspect of healthcare, including who has access to it and what treatment is appropriate, etc? Seems like such a giant glaring contradiction.
768. Laura said:
Yes, I'm going to be one of those who writes about how I think John McCain is "scary". I find him scary on a number of levels, not just the abortion issue.
All I have to say is, I am pro-choice, but am against abortion in general. Jebus help me, may I never be in a position where I have to make that choice...but it's nice to know that I still DO have the choice.
769. Wendy S. said:
I have found your blog somewhat entertaining- I however find that your political views are very uneducated. Clearly you do not understand that a President -any president will ever be able to reverse Roe vs. Wade, and it shouldn't be. You clearly not read Obama's books, nor his tax plan. I have and for anyone to vote for someone that supports "live" abortion and redistributing wealth is ridiculous, as well as the fact that in a published book he ridicules his own grandmother. I put myself and my husband through grad school why in the world should I now have to pay for someone who CHOSE not to grow their own income is beyond my comprehension. Clearly you make less than 250,000 a year and maybe you do not need to worry about your income taxes increasing. Guess what- when I have to pay more taxes I am going to spend less money on consumables and all of the people including my cleaner that I recently let go are not going to have jobs. So keep on supporting the person that is going to drive the economy futher into the toilet- good choice!!!
770. Amy J. said:
Oh, and this...
Can I get a shout out from my fellow Republicans on how effin' funny (and right on) this is!!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XivNwQ76mCs
If I say Obama, you say Ayers!!
771. Joanna said:
Breathtaking how many people say in the same breath: "We can't have the government running health care" and "we must late the state decide what you can do with your uterus!" Make up your minds!
Want to leave it up to the states? Check out what's happening in South Dakota:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ztfn-kayOps
772. Leslie said:
I'm done with Dooce too. This month should read CONTRIVED TRIPE.
And Diane, click away. It's unique users she's losing, apparently in droves.
Unique users. Got it, stupid ewe?
773. Anonymous said:
really?? I came to this site after reading an article about the founder in Hybrid Moms...I just want to say I am so disappointed. The first thing I read is why any women should not vote for McCain. OK thanks for nothing
774. BluelikeTheSky said:
I noticed that, so far (and I may have missed someone by reading rapidly..sorry), only #743 shares my concern (expressed in #612) that the real issue here is the COURT.
Complacency over Roe is dangerous. As you can see, those who believe that abortion is never acceptable are not in the least bit complacent. Their votes are valuable and their franchise is respected and sought (even if their views are not shared by the true money and power at the top of the Republican power structure. I promise, Dick Cheney and Karl Rove and Paul Wolfowitz and the other neo-con hard hitters do not believe in biblical inerrancy, gifts of the spirit, or purity balls).
Sarah Palin was chosen for the ticket SOLELY to deliver the votes of the religious right. Why else was James Dobson on the conservative talk radio agreeing to vote, finally, for McCain within 15 minutes of the announcement. Do you honestly think that was a coincidence? You can see in McCain's face that she is not his first choice.
Anyway...sorry for the rant.
Just as I challenge my students, I challenge each and every one of us to be precise in our choice of words, particularly SOCIALISM and its variants. When I ask my college students to define "socialized medicine," none can. None. At best, they attribute fallacious policies to random candidates.
Few things are closer to socialism than a government owning equity stake in banks, after all.
It is so very dangerous when partisans on either side use fear-laden, imprecise diction to advance their causes. "Liberal," "Conservative," "Socialist," etc. are so subjective now that they have practically no meaning. I suggest we put them aside.
As for single issues, is anyone ever going to be 100% a perfect candidate? Refusing to vote for someone because of his or her position on one out of thousands of issues when you agree on 80% of the others seems guaranteed to doom you to dissatisfaction.
If we demanded perfection, after all, would anyone ever get married?
775. Anonymous said:
#300
Tiggerlane -
Woman who are insulted by John McCain's choice of running mate are catering to their real power brokers - liberal men. And how fun it is to be sexist to Sarah Palin! Anything goes when one is a Republican, don't it?
776. Anonymous said:
Wendy S, your comment made me laugh out loud, it is so ironic. Go and read # 743 and educate yourself a little on the role of the president in appointing Supreme Court justices.
777. northofyou said:
Abortion has been legal in Canada for 20 years. And amazingly, women keep having babies. Maybe all that legal access to abortion hasn't led to the extinction of the species after all.
Canada's socialized medical system means the same access to prenatal care for EVERY woman, regardless of their socioeconomic status. And get this, when you DO have a baby, you're entitled to 12 months (not weeks - MONTHS) of maternity leave. Another perk!